Lana & The Coercive Controlling Abuser - Domestic Violence, Narcissist Abuse, IPV

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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🗓️ 1 May 2023

⏱️ 94 minutes

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Summary

Lana met her future husband at a bar. He was very handsome. Dark chestnut hair. Hazel eyes. Long eyelashes. Olive skin. And a perfect smile. Lana felt she was lucky to get his attention. But unfortunately for Lana, appearances are not always what they seem, and Lana found herself married to an abusive coercive controller. It's a story of coercive control, IPV, sexual coercion, victim playing, belittling, shame, fixing, child sexual abuse, sowing the seeds of doubt, fear, isolation, gaslighting, blame shifting, love bombing, trauma bonding, addiction, minimization, crazy making, self blame, bad police officers, intimidation, rage, depression, low self-esteem, disappearing acts, jealousy, and much more. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode graphically discusses child hood sexual abuse, adult physical abuse (IPV), and adult sexual coercion/abuse/assault. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Thank you to our sponsor NEW MAJORITY VENTURES. To listen to their new podcast, Porch Talks, click here. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:25.7	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Lana,
0:32.0	and Lana was in a controlling relationship with a jealous physical abuser. It's a story of childhood abuse,
0:39.0	coercive control, sowing the seeds of doubt, fear, sexual coercion, and shame. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
1:10.2	I am Brandon Chadwick, And with me today, we have Lana. How are you?
1:18.3	I'm good. Thank you for having me on. Well, thank you for being here. And if you want to be a guest like
1:25.8	Lana is today, please do go to our website at
1:28.7	Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form. When you click
1:33.9	on that button, it takes you to our guest form page. There, you can read all of our instructions.
1:38.7	And either send us an email at Narcissistapocalypse at gmail.com or fill out our guest form
1:43.5	and press the submit button.
1:45.0	And please do send it in the format that we ask for.
1:48.6	And today we are going to hear Lana's story.
1:52.2	And this is not an easy story to hear.
1:56.4	So a big content warning for this episode.
1:59.6	We will be graphically discussing child sexual abuse in this
2:04.1	episode, graphically discussing as well physical abuse throughout the second half of this episode,
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