This is Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby and you're listening to the Love, Happiness, and Success

podcast.

Infidelity is devastating to go through as you know so well if you've experienced this in your

own life.

It will always change you.

It will change your relationship.

But not necessarily for the worse.

There is a doorway in this darkness that opens up to the light and knowing what it is and how to walk through it, either alone or together, allows you to turn a terrible experience

into a chapter of growth and ultimately healing for yourself and hopefully your relationship to.

On today's show, we're going to be talking about the tools for surviving infidelity.

And by that, I mean the first stages, that crisis period.

I have talked extensively in the past on other podcasts about the journey of healing after infidelity and restoring trust and relationship repair.

But there is a special time in this process that is incredibly fragile.

It is incredibly intense.

And that is what we're going to be focusing on on today's show our mood music

today is very vintage Pink Floyd my goodness 1968 the song is set the controls for the

heart of the sun and I chose a song for a number of reasons I think think it conveys the intensity, you know, the foreboding

of this work, because it really is difficult and it is intense. But also just symbolically,

the title of the song. I mean, going into the heart of the sun, with this work, to do it well, you will go into the core of the core of the core.

And it's valuable work, it's a difficult work, but, you know, I think that this song kind of captures part of that experience.

And really, that's what we're going to be talking about today,

is what to do with this very intense time to not make it worse,

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