Toolbox | Why Love Isn't Enough & 4 Skills You Need for a Healthy Relationship

The Art of Charm

http://www.TheArtOfCharm.com

Business, Health & Fitness, Education

4.7 • 11K Ratings

🗓️ 18 January 2021

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

In today’s episode, we cover how to keep the romance in your life fresh. Unfortunately, many of us believe relationship myths as truth which can set us up for failure, so what are the biggest relationship myths, what else do you need besides love to make a relationship work, and what skills can you start working on today to improve your relationships? What to Listen For The Biggest Relationship Myths - 5:50 What are the biggest myths surrounding relationships and why do we believe them? Why do some people fall in love with falling in love more than they fall in love with actual people? How are dating apps making it more difficult for you to find a healthy relationship and what should you do to avoid falling into the swipe life trap? What are the 2 human traits that work against us when it comes to dating apps and how do we overcome them? The Tools for Strengthening Relationships - 15:45 What are emotional bids and how can you use them to deepen your relationships? What is the DEEP framework and how can you use it to understand the differences between you and your partner? What question can you and your partner ask each other to develop actionable goals to be more supportive of one another? What 4 skills can you start working on today to keep your relationship fresh? What simple exercise can you implement every day or week to improve communication in your relationships? What are the 3 levels of listening and how can your knowledge of them help you strengthen relationships? A long-lasting happy relationship requires more than just love. If you don’t have the skills to navigate all of the issues and challenges that inevitably arise from two people spending time together, love won’t simply solve all of your problems. Fortunately, the skills necessary to forge healthy relationships can be taught and learned, but you must be willing to grow. A Word From Our Sponsors Share your vulnerabilities, victories, and questions in our 17,000-member private Facebook group at theartofcharm.com/challenge. This is a unique opportunity where everyone — both men and women — celebrate your accountability on the way to becoming the best version of yourself. Register today here! Resources from this Episode Why Emotional Connection Makes or Breaks a Relationship (Episode 719) Turning Toward Emotion (Episode 720) THIS IS WATER! A speech by David Foster Wallace Check in with AJ and Johnny! AJ on Instagram Johnny on Instagram The Art of Charm on Instagram The Art of Charm on YouTube

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0:00.0	Welcome back to the Articharm podcast, a show dedicated to help you win at work, love, and life.
0:07.6	Now we know here at the Articharm that you have what it takes to reach your full potential.
0:12.2	And that's why Johnny and I are here every single week to support you by sharing interviews and
0:17.2	strategies to help you develop the right social skills and mindsets to succeed.
0:23.2	You shouldn't have to settle for anything less than extraordinary.
0:26.6	I'm AJ. And I'm Johnny. If you love this show don't forget to subscribe and leave us a quick review
0:32.4	on iTunes. Ready to make 2021 your best year yet? Join our X Factor Accelerator Mentorship program
0:40.9	and master relationships. Don't just take our word for it. Before working with your guys
0:47.2	in the X Factor Accelerator, I was struggling with a lack of self-confidence. I wouldn't call it a
0:52.2	failure but a hesitation to communicate and just basic lack of knowledge regarding listening.
0:58.8	What the X Factor has done is helped me realize these issues which I've been facing and improve on them.
1:06.0	The one thing I enjoy the most about the X Factor Accelerator is that it's so interactive and
1:11.8	so personal. I not only get feedback for the various wins over the week or the various issues I'm
1:19.6	facing but I also get a personal note from another human being. It's not like reading a book
1:26.1	another person is helping me realize that I can do much better.
1:30.8	Regarding wins with respect to the dating life before I struggled with self-confidence issues
1:37.3	with just general self-doubt and now it's shattered. I look forward the more holistic
1:43.3	approaches to my goals with regard to not just a certain area of my life but rounding off my life
1:50.1	as a whole. The X Factor Accelerator is the most definitive way to get the best version of yourself.
1:57.0	The one way I could define that the better of me today is better than the me of yesterday.
2:01.5	I value the teaching, the course, the feedback I get for all my wins, my successes and my issues
2:08.6	and yeah without it I don't think I would be at this level at all.
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