brought to you by the every dollar app start budgeting for free today i uh uprooted my family and

moved ended up taking about a 65 percent pay cut and uh now everything's just starting to pile up and

i i want to know if it makes me a deadbeat father if I move back to my old job

where I'm making north of 150K versus south of 50K.

Just to keep all the bills paid and food in the fridge.

Well, what was the reason for you to uproot them and take this pay cut?

It was clearly a big

enough reason that you guys decided to do this. Just to keep the family together, be a little

bit closer to my partner's family. They're super close, but... Okay, and now you're realizing

we can't sustain this financially. With our lifestyle, our bills, and our much lower income, this is stressful for us, even though we're closer to family.

Exactly.

Are you in a, when you moved away, how far away are you from where you guys moved?

Because when you said to go back to my job, does that mean move again to go back to the old

job or you could do something different with where you guys live now? It's 3,000 miles and I was told

if I go back and go back by myself. Whoa, like an ultimatum? Yeah.

Does she understand what's going on financially at all?

How is she feeling?

Is she stressed about it?

She knows that it's not well, but she's kind of blind to it. And she just took a different job to work less hours too.

How it?

She doesn't helping anything.

Okay.

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