Tony Robbins: How to Build a Relationship that Lasts

The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby

Matt & Abby

Society & Culture

4.8 • 16.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 January 2026

⏱️ 81 minutes

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Tony Robbins and his wife Sage Robbins sit down with Matt & Abby for an honest conversation about marriage, love, and longevity. They open up about miscarriage, surrogacy, raising kids later in life, and what it really takes to stay connected through different seasons of a relationship. This episode is sponsored by LMNT, Hiya, BetterHelp & Cash App. LMNT: Get a free 8-count Sample Pack of LMNT’s most popular drink mix flavors with any purchase at https://DrinkLMNT.com/UNPLANNED Hiya: Receive 50% off your first order of Hiya's best selling children's vitamin at https://hiyahealth.com/UNPLANNED BetterHelp: Sign up and get 10% off at https://BetterHelp.com/unplannedpodcast. #ad Cash App: Download Cash App Today: https://capl.onelink.me/vFut/5u7gm6rr #CashAppPod. Cash App is a financial services platform, not a bank. Banking services provided by Cash App’s bank partner(s). Prepaid debit cards issued by Sutton Bank, Member FDIC. See terms and conditions at https://cash.app/legal/us/en-us/card-agreement Cash App Green, overdraft coverage, borrow, cash back offers and promotions provided by Cash App, a Block, Inc. brand. Visit http://cash.app/legal/podcast for full disclosures. Chapters: 00:00 - Tony Robbins 01:27 - Secret to long marriage 02:41 - Struggles with miscarriages 05:20 - Parenting then vs. Parenting now 11:07 - I'm Not Your Guru 16:58 - The love my parents modelled 24:10 - Your relationship as seasons 34:35 - Fertility journey 41:47 - Surrogacy 52:37 - Soul Recognition 54:38 - Raising our daughter as a product of love 59:34 - Working with your spouse 1:09:45 - Everyone's deepest fear 1:14:49 - Responsibility is freedom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:29.5	This is not being disrespectful. I hope you can feel my state.
0:32.4	You're not a man until you're about 40, just so you know.
0:34.7	Maybe 50.
0:35.7	Our daughter has two moms. She has her mom carried her.
0:38.3	She got her mom here that comes from her and she's got me. We have this unique family. I wanted to be a mother so bad. And then miscarriage after miscarriage after miscarriage. I surrendered that. And I'd never be who I am without that path. The best way to serve your children is the way you love each other. We live in a world, we make our kids number one, and our kids are critical to us.
0:56.6	But we're number one.
0:57.7	The deepest fear everyone has. Everyone. I've dealt with kings, queens, presence, people in prisons. We all have a fear that we're not enough. And that leads to a much deeper fear, which is, if I'm not enough, I won't be loved. and love is the oxygen of life. Today on unplanned, we sat down
1:12.1	with the self-help legend Tony Robbins, the billionaire, life coach, motivational speaker, and philanthropist
1:18.5	that has been helping people get their lives back on track since the 1980s. And his work has impacted
1:23.2	some of the most influential people in the world. Names like Nelson Mandela, Bill Clinton, and Princess Diana.
1:29.2	Also, his wife of over 20 years, Sage is joining us for this interview, and we get into all
1:34.5	the unique details of their story.
1:36.1	Like having a baby in their 50s and 60s, why their daughter has two moms, and so much
1:41.5	more, all on today's episode.
1:45.5	You've been together for over 26 years, correct?
1:48.5	Yes. Yes.
1:48.8	What's your secret? How do you stay married that long? It's amazing.
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