get it the virtue. So she might have had an aha moment because her husband convinced her

to move 30 minutes away for his job, right? And now she's starting to have this little

nagging theory on exactly why he might have wanted to take this job. And she wants

our help to try to get to the truth.

My marriage isn't a really weird spot and I'm starting to come to some realizations that

I'm hoping aren't true. For about a year, there's been some weirdness between the two

of us. We had just had a baby and I thought it was the stress of a new situation, lack

of sleep, changing schedules, etc. I assumed it would get better and whatever distance I

was feeling between us would go away. My husband started working longer hours and spending

time away from us more often. He admitted that it was partly because he didn't want to

be around the tension between us. I couldn't deny that there was that tension and I also

felt a sense of relief when he wasn't around. So I didn't challenge him on that or even

are you that he wasn't home. About six months ago, he convinced me that we needed to move

about 30 minutes away from our old house. I couldn't understand why. It was no closer to

his job. He had all sorts of reasons and I finally gave in. He said the distance was

the same, but traffic wasn't as bad in that area. I actually don't think that's true.

He also said that we needed to think long term about the school district. That might

have made sense, but we had never really looked into the schools and we have five years

before we need to worry about that. And we don't have kids.

Yeah, they do. I'm just kidding. I'm like, she's the name of the baby. That might have

made sense, but we never really looked into schools and we have five years before we

need to worry about that. He also said the houses were cheaper in the area and we could sell

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