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For The Girl

Mac Bridges & Kenz Durham

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.9 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 13 March 2026

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Comparison is sneaky, and if we’re honest, it’s something none of us ever fully graduate from. In today’s episode, we’re having a real conversation about how comparison shows up in our lives—even in adulthood, friendships, motherhood, and ministry. We share some vulnerable stories from our own friendship and from building Delight together, including moments when comparison tried to creep in and steal our joy. But here’s the good news: we truly believe freedom from comparison is possible. We walk through seven practical ways to combat comparison—from calling it out and checking your lane to celebrating others and committing to gratitude. These aren’t just theories; they’re lessons we’ve had to learn (and relearn) over the years. If you’ve ever found yourself spiraling after scrolling social media, questioning your gifts, or feeling like someone else is doing life “better,” this episode is for you. Our prayer is that you walk away feeling lighter, freer, and more confident in the unique way God designed you. 💛 In This Episode [02:30] Comparison in Close Friendships [05:30] Call It Out [07:00] Where Comparison Shows Up Today [10:00] The Hidden Lies Behind Comparison [14:00] Check Your Lane [20:00] Catch It Early [24:00] When Our Minds Start Spiraling [28:00] Cut the Feed [33:00] Celebrate Others [38:00] Connect With Yourself [42:00] Commit to Gratitude [44:30] Finding Freedom from Comparison Delight Ministries Looking for a Delight Chapter near you? Check out⁠⁠ Delightministries.com⁠⁠ to find one. If there's not one near you, and you want to help start one, ⁠⁠let us know⁠⁠! We would love to talk. ⁠⁠ORDER OUR NEW STUDY!⁠⁠⁠ This seven-week, verse-by-verse study through the book of Acts invites you to embrace the unpredictable, sometimes challenging adventure of Spirit-led living that characterized the early church. Thanks to Our Sponsors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Winshape⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn more or submit your application today⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! ⁠Creatone⁠: Visit ⁠tonetoday.com⁠ and use code FTGFAM to get 20% off! If you’d like to partner with For The Girl as a sponsor, fill out our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise With Us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form! Follow us! 📸Instagram: For This Girl Mac Kenz Subscribe! 🍏⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🎧⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 📹⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:30.1	Hey for the girl, Sam.
0:32.1	Welcome back to the podcast.
0:36.8	On today's episode, we are talking about comparison.
0:38.2	Comparison. Because it is something that just needs to be talked about.
0:40.8	Yeah.
0:41.1	Right?
0:41.4	Yeah.
0:42.6	Comparison is one of those things that if I can get back in the mindset when we were in college.
0:47.9	I remember, like, struggling with comparison.
0:50.9	But then I felt like I graduated from comparison at one point.
0:54.0	You know, I was like, oh, I at one point you know I was like oh I got
0:55.8	this like I don't compare myself anymore but comparison is super sneaky and I feel like has
1:02.2	snuck into my life in seasons that I really didn't expect it to and so there's something about
1:10.2	really struggling with comparison is one of those
1:13.5	things that can weigh you down more than anything. Yeah. It is like, it is literally like a poison
1:19.0	that is we get so used to living with. Yeah. We get so comfortable with. And so I don't think any of us actually ever graduate from needing this
1:31.0	like reminder and this conversation around it. You're so right. Because it's easy to come into
1:35.5	the conversation and be like, yeah, I don't think it's not me anymore. Like I'm so confident
1:40.3	in the way that I'm doing life. But like like, little do you know it might be, like,
1:45.4	festering in a small area of your life that might seep into so many others. But, yeah, one of the
1:51.1	things, like, Tyler has always told me the thing that, like, drew him the most to me, or drew,
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