Welcome to the Girl On Top, Shallon Exo Podcast. I'm your host, Shallon Lester, and you

might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze several relationships and scandals

for lessons we can take into our own lives. But here on the podcast, I answer the best

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Welcome back to the podcast, shallogators. Well, this week we are going to be talking Tinder,

we're going to be talking dating apps, bumble Tinder, because your girl is out there. I'm out

swiping around. I don't want a boyfriend, but I also don't want to like roam the earth alone,

like the incredible Hulk, like I'm kind of looking for something in between. And so I'm tindering

around and just seeing what's out there and holy shit. Do I have a lot of opinions? But when do I

not? Also, we're going to talk to one of you shallogators who is having a bumble sort of breakdown

with a bumbleboy who she can't tell if there's a ton of red flags, if there's no red flags.

Why don't you go ahead and guess what the answer is. But first, let's do our mantra, okay?

Sometimes our mantra is very esoteric. Last week was let go and let God this week, it's

head not heart. I'm thinking with my head and not my heart. Or like your pelvis, right,

your vagina. We're not going to think with anything but our head that's the only bodily organ

we're focusing on. So let's get relaxed. Ooh, let's get into our relaxation stance.

Loosen our jaw. Ooh, yeah, rub your ears a little bit. Oh, that's so nice. Oh, that's

so nice. Okay, and we're going to breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth while

repeating our mantra. In through the nose.

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