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So I am 57 years old. I've been married for 33 years and I've never managed our joint

financials. But I find myself that that was a big mistake on my part, and I need help with trying to figure

out how to sort out my finances.

I have a house that's in my name, and my husband has gambling problems that I just discovered and it's been

snowballing since I started discovering the problems.

I signed a he log, not knowing what actually was finding.

Um, so I owe $90,000, uh, of that haven't done taxes for four years.

So I know that at least I owe $10,000 out of, to the IRS on top of everything else I bought you.

Oh, because he was taking money of my retirement without my knowledge. and so that's going to come down the pipe for me.

And I'm just overwhelmed about how to get things.

How did you find out?

I found out a letter because, you know, he handled the mail.

He handled everything.

I opened a letter from Fidelity and found out that he had borrowed money from there.

And I confronted them about it.

And that was last year.

And he said, um, he was paying and he did pay it.

And I told them not to take any more money.

Uh, but he continued to do that.

Not only that, but he had taken money prior years.

And he never told me that he's got 10 counts because he also stole money from a nonprofit

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