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"This Predicts Divorce With 94% Accuracy!" - How To Find Real Love PT 2

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Relationships, Education, Society & Culture

4.8 • 700 Ratings

🗓️ 5 March 2024

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner!  Today we are joined by the world’s leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we’re diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won’t last, AND what you can do before it’s too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you’re fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise  - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness  - And soooo much more!   The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you’re getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships.  Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658  Follow The Gottmans: Website: https://www.gottman.com/ For Couples: https://gottmanconnect.com/  Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658  Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu:  Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu  X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu  If you want to dive deeper into my content, search through every episode, find specific topics I've covered, and ask me questions. Go to my Dexa page: https://dexa.ai/lisabilyeu  Themes: Confidence, Relationships, Business, Mental Health, Self-Improvement Sponsors: If you purchase an item using these affiliate links, Impact Theory may receive a commission. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa now to grow your business–no matter what stage you’re in. This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Give online therapy a try at https://betterhelp.com/women and get on your way to being your best self! Right now, download NetSuite’s popular KPI Checklist, designed to give you consistently excellent performance - absolutely free, at https://NetSuite.com/WOMEN. Post your job for free at https://LinkedIn.com/LISA.Terms and conditions apply. Go to https://tryviome.com/LISA and use code LISA to get 20% off your first 3 months, and take control of your gut health today! Try AG1 and get a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D3K2 AND 5 free AG1 Travel Packs with your first purchase by going to https://drinkAG1.com/lisa. ***CALLING ALL BADASSES!*** If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be!  *New episodes delivered ad-free, EXCLUSIVE access to hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, and so much more!* Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary! *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrP***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back to this part of this absolutely value-packed conversation with Dr. John and Dr.

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Julie Gottman.

1:01.7

That's right, the world's leading relationship scientists behind the Gottman Institute that you

1:06.6

have heard me talk about a thousand times on this show.

1:09.6

They dedicate helping couples and repair

1:11.9

and strengthen relationships. And we get right back into the habits of healthy relationships,

1:17.0

how to prevent cheating and busting misleading myths about relationships. Like you should never go

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to bed mad. We also get into how you can rebuild your marriage and heal from betrayal.

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We also talk about the right way to take a break during a fight and guess what?

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