"This Predicts Divorce With 94% Accuracy!" - How To Find Real Love PT 1

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Relationships, Education, Society & Culture

4.8 • 700 Ratings

🗓️ 23 February 2026

⏱️ 61 minutes

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It’s Lisa Bilyeu here with another episode of Women of Impact and this one is FILLED with science-backed methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner! Today we are joined by the world’s leading relationship scientists, Dr. John Gottman & Dr. Julie Gottman. Together they have more than 50 years researching couples and relationship health, and they have SOOOO much information to share if you want to build a strong, long-lasting relationship! In this episode, we’re diving into: - The signs that all but guarantee your relationship won’t last, AND what you can do before it’s too late - Why you MUST go deep into the conflict to truly understand why you’re fighting - How to fight right and keep it from getting out of control with their “Repair checklist” - Ways you and your partner can come together and find solutions or compromise - The 5 steps to ACTUALLY heal an emotional injury in your relationship - Why cheating is a symptom of a problem in your relationship, and not the CAUSE of the problems - How contempt in a relationship can lead to physical illness - And soooo much more! The Gottmans are dedicated to helping couples repair and strengthen their relationship, and their research has truly been revolutionary and unmatched! From fighting, to cheating, to sex and SOOOO much more, in this episode, you’re getting a research-based MASTERCLASS on strengthening relationships. Be sure to get a copy of “Fight Right” here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠ Follow The Gottmans: Website: ⁠https://www.gottman.com/⁠ For Couples: ⁠https://gottmanconnect.com/⁠ Order Your Copy of “Fight Right”: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/Fight-Right-Successful-Conflict-Connection/dp/0593579658⁠ Follow Me, Lisa Bilyeu: Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu X: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Special announcement.
0:02.7	Guys, if you freaking love women of impact and you've ever thought,
0:06.6	damn, I actually wish I could ask Lisa or whatever, I guess, a question in real time,
0:10.4	or if you've ever wondered, what's you like to actually hang out with Lisa?
0:13.6	Well, my ladies, this is for you because I'm officially going live on YouTube
0:17.9	every single Thursday at 4pm Pacific Standard Time.
0:21.1	There's no edits, there's no filters.
0:23.0	It's just real conversations where we actually go deeper on relationships,
0:26.7	confidence, pop culture, mindset and all the stuff that we actually don't have time to unpack
0:30.6	on the podcast.
0:31.9	This is your chance to hang with me live, ask your questions and get real-time answers
0:36.1	and reactions that you won't hear anywhere else.
0:39.2	So while the word gets more and more AI and you look at videos and you're not sure what's real or
0:44.1	what's not, well you better believe that I'm real and I'm showing up every single week to hang out
0:49.2	with my girl gang. That's right. That's you guys. Well, we can unpack the real, the no BS stuff
0:53.9	that's happening to women in the world today. So go and set the reminder. Tell your besties to come and join me live on YouTube every Thursday, 4pm. And I can't wait to see you there.
1:03.8	What up, homies. This is Lisa Bill You with another episode of Women of Impact. And this one, oh my God. This one is filled. I'm talking filled with science-backed
1:11.9	methods that will help you have a stronger, healthier relationship with your partner.
1:15.8	All right, are you ready to hear who it is? Dr. John and Dr. Julie Gottman. Yes, like the
1:21.7	Gottman's, whose research I've mentioned all the time in my show, because they are just that prevalent and that influential
1:29.2	in the space in understanding why relationships work and don't work.
1:34.5	Me and my husband Tom, who have been married for 21 years.
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