Listen, it's the virtue. It's a it's a dangerous theory that I have honestly because it could be

Misinterpreted because I really believe that

100% honesty in relationships. It's about 2% too much. Little white lies go long way sometimes or silence

Sometimes goes a really long way

So someone's gonna went to her for that like this dude and say well, I'm just not gonna tell her about my fertility problems and

Maybe that'll just count as part of the 2% that's too big

That's too big to be considered in that 2%

I'm talking about little white lies. You don't say you know, no if you are

Lying about your fertility or your infertility that is a big that is not called a whittle

A whittle a whittle white that's not a whittle white. Why?

Right so Ruth here is wondering if she should dump this dude or not because he lied about something super important fertility

Hey Ruth

Hey boy, if I got a story for y'all oh my god. I love when they start like that. Let's go

Yeah, so we were actually

Neighbors and we've been good friends for about a year. I was in the process of moving and every time I would go back out of state

To take truth, you know, we were hanging out. We had a conversation about fertility and about birth control like grown adults do and

He said hey honey. No worries. I've had a vastectomy. Well

Come to find out

A month later I get that positive test

So I can try them about it and I'm with it. I mean imagine you're in the middle of I'm in the middle of moving

Not a good time. I have a four-year-old son

I'm thinking he can wipe his own butt he can shout

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