Welcome to Love Life, I'm Matthew Hussey and I have an amazing show for you today.

But first let me ask you, did you know that there are three female mindsets that drive

men absolutely wild?

Okay, you're right, confidence is one, but can you guess the other two?

I'll give you a minute to think about it and we'll come back to this at the end of the

show.

But first, let's get into today's episode.

Today's topic is making somebody else the expert.

Now I'm going to explain this in a moment, but I want to just preface this by saying one

of the most important things we can do in becoming better with people is to actually make them

feel great around us, to stop trying to impress everybody with what we know and who we are

and to allow ourselves to be impressed by other people.

You will notice in life that the people that you want to be around, other people that

make you feel great, that make you feel impressive, that want to know more about you and feel

like you want to be around people that make you feel like an interesting person.

And one of the things we do, one of the traps we fall into when we go and speak to people

is that we ourselves want to sound impressive.

We want to be the ones who know everything.

And when someone tells us about themselves, we tend to connect with them simply by showing

that we understand what they're talking about and not by trying to be more curious.

So I want to give us a couple of ways that we can make other people the expert instead

of making it about us, instead of making it about ourselves.

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