This Kind of Intimacy is Wasting Your Time

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 24 February 2017

⏱️ 8 minutes

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Summary

We all understand by now what “Late-Night Booty Call Guy” wants from you. But today we’re looking at a species with a different, much more confusing motive: “Man Who Just Wants to Cuddle.” What is really going on here? Does he want a girlfriend, or just a warm body to keep him company? I take a call from a brave woman named Nicky who admits she’s in this baffling situation with a man she really likes, and I give her advice on how to confront him and find out what he’s really after. Because if he literally wants to “Netflix and Chill,” that’s wasting her time when she could be out there finding someone who wants to cuddle… but only after the kind of intimacy that happens in a real relationship.

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0:00.0	This is Love Life and I'm your host, Matthew Hussie.
0:06.0	It's so exciting to hear feedback from women who say things like,
0:09.4	Matt, I tried the advice from your podcast and I met someone incredible that same night.
0:14.9	But occasionally I'll hear something like,
0:17.2	when something finally starts to go right in my life,
0:20.2	I have trouble trusting that it's real and I just can't enjoy it.
0:24.4	If you can relate, I want you to stay tuned until the end of today's show
0:28.4	because there's something really exciting I want to share with you
0:31.2	that has the power to change your way of thinking forever.
0:34.4	But first, let's get to the episode.
0:39.8	We have Nikki on the line, Nikki, are you there?
0:42.6	I am.
0:43.9	Hello, you're a wonderful caller for today.
0:46.4	Have you got your question ready?
0:48.6	I do, actually.
0:50.2	All right.
0:51.2	So I've been kind of seeing, I mean, we're not dating,
0:54.9	but seeing this guy for a while now and after about a month,
0:58.1	we were intimate.
1:00.2	Well, now all he seems to want to do is snuggle and not,
1:02.6	but that's a huge problem.
1:04.9	Just that's all he wants to do.
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