This is Why Narcissists are so MEAN
Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs
Lisa A. Romano
4.8 • 805 Ratings
🗓️ 7 November 2021
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
One of the personality traits you will notice nearly right away in someone you may think may be narcissistic, is their meanness. Narcissists are those who live on the attack and in defense mode and who are also highly suspicious and distrusting. Narcissists also lack empathy, and feel entitled to exploit others. When you add these not so pleasant personality traits, you end up dealing with someone who tends to by super critical and really mean. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano discusses why it is narcissists are so mean.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:06.0 | My name is Lisa A. Romano. |
| 0:08.0 | I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse. |
| 0:16.0 | I am a believer in the power of an organized mind. |
| 0:20.0 | My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness, rather |
| 0:25.8 | than living a reactive life. |
| 0:28.3 | May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope, as you |
| 0:33.5 | spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast. |
| 0:39.6 | So today, we're going to be discussing why narcissists are so mean and see if we can unravel |
| 0:45.2 | what that means. When we're thinking about relationships, we have to understand a couple of basic |
| 0:50.6 | ideas in that if you're in a healthy relationship, your partner has goodwill for you. |
| 0:56.4 | Your partner sees you as someone who is flawed and that's okay. In other words, we all have |
| 1:03.4 | our deal breakers. I have mine. I know what I will tolerate and what I will not tolerate in a |
| 1:08.7 | relationship. I also know what I deserve and what I don't tolerate in a relationship. I also know what I deserve and what I don't |
| 1:13.2 | deserve in a relationship. So after almost 57 years of life on this planet, I finally figured |
| 1:19.7 | out and started to figure out about 40 to 45 years old what was healthy and what was unhealthy |
| 1:26.3 | and really got clear about my value and my worth as a |
| 1:30.9 | human being. But I also understood that I was not perfect. In fact, I was very flawed. And part of my |
| 1:39.0 | self-actualization process, and I think it's the same for all of us, is learning to accept that we're not perfect. |
| 1:45.4 | The ability to recognize yourself as flawed and imperfect is really a gift. |
| 1:50.5 | As long as you're not going down a rabbit hole because you're not perfect. |
| 1:53.2 | Like you really understand that this is a process of evolution and you're unfolding, |
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