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Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

Narcissists Bag of Tricks -- How They Secure a Mistress

Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

Lisa A. Romano

Self-improvement, Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness

4.8805 Ratings

🗓️ 12 November 2021

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Narcissists are clever. They are also predator-like and see the world as a stage. All that is is a game and you are simply a character in their play. Black and white thinkers, narcissists either despise you or idealize you. If you have something they want, you are of value. If you don't or if you stop idealizing them, they will see no value in you. Narcissists have a bag of tricks they use to secure a mistress and or a lover. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano Transformational Life Coach and bestselling author will teach you what to be aware of.

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast.

0:06.0

My name is Lisa A. Romano.

0:08.0

I am a life coach, best-selling author, YouTube vlogger, meditation teacher, an expert in the field of codependency and narcissistic abuse.

0:16.0

I am a believer in the power of an organized mind.

0:20.0

My aim is to help people learn what it means to live above the veil of consciousness rather

0:25.8

than living a reactive life.

0:28.3

May your heart feel blessed, your mind feel expanded, and your spirit find hope as you

0:33.5

spend time with me here at the Breakdown to Breakthrough podcast.

0:38.8

Today, we're going to be talking about the married narcissist and his mistress.

0:44.4

So this is a really difficult topic, the idea that there are a narcissist out there,

0:49.1

they're cheating narcissist, and in this case, I am addressing a email that I got from a viewer asking me to discuss

0:57.3

what it is to be married to a narcissist who has another woman in his life.

1:03.0

And I thought long and hard about it because the reality is narcissists in general are insatiable

1:09.4

when it comes to needing sources of narcissistic supply.

1:13.2

And they live with this mask, and it can be so debilitating and so destabilizing to be the woman

1:22.6

in the life of a narcissistic man who has complete control over her financially, who has oftentimes

1:30.5

isolated her from friends and family, and who has created a situation in which the wife in a

1:38.3

situation relies on him for everything. And you find yourself in this situation not knowing how it happened.

1:46.5

Falling in love really quick, often after a love bombing situation, after feeling

1:52.5

idealized, feeling like you found your soulmate. Often you fall in love with someone who is,

1:58.7

who seems to have a lot of character, who seems intelligent,

2:02.1

who has a great job, and who is financially independent. I mean, this guy is checking off all the

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