We just released a video on the YouTube channel that people are loving.

It's a coaching session that you did with a kid who said he hasn't felt good in years.

And I'd love to just dive into this video and do a breakdown to see the patterns that you

see and how they might be showing up for people who are watching this and how they can learn

from this in their own lives.

Yeah, that would be fantastic. There is,

if I recall correctly, there are some very cool patterns in here that really touch a tremendous

amount of us, especially if we didn't get that kind of care that we need from our parents.

All right. Let's dive in. I keep getting overwhelmed by by bodily sensations or you might call them emotions

they're extremely uncomfortable and they make you very difficult to rest okay hold on a second

hold on second so you can see i'm smiling right now and the reason i'm smiling is because he's clearly

reading and so what i know so what i I know is that he's in his head.

He's not fully in his body.

He's clearly concerned that he's going to describe it wrong,

which makes me immediately realize that he's in a deep self-reliance pattern.

Right? You can already tell, like, it's very important to him that he gets it a deep self-reliance pattern, right?

You can already tell, like, it's very important to him that he gets it right.

So the pattern that he's in is, like, deeply self-reliant.

And that means that he's not particularly getting the, like, the care.

He didn't get the care that he really needed or wanted as a when he was younger

and so so all I can tell all that but I also just find him unbelievably adorable so you can tell by the smile on my face like I just I'm just I'm already enamored with this, with this kid. And I think one of the things

in self-reliance is that it's really hard for somebody to see when you're in a self-reliance pattern,

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