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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

"This Is A Woman's Sexual Fantasy" - Stop Being The Nice Guy & Master Seduction | Robert Greene

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.75.2K Ratings

🗓️ 28 November 2023

⏱️ 95 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to Impact Theory where I’m going for a deep dive into the art of seduction with best-selling author and expert strategist, Robert Greene. Known for his profound understanding of human nature, Greene shares game-changing insights that are a game-changer in your dating approach and what women will find attractive about you. In this episode, we're breaking down the barriers that hold many men back in their romantic pursuits. We're challenging the "nice guy" stereotype and embracing the power of strategic moves, artful authenticity, and the courage to be vulnerable. Greene says, "Seduction involves the desire to lose control." It's time to step out of your analytical mindset and tune into the woman you desire and dare to be vulnerable. Discover why Robert believes that flirtation is more about the looks you give than the words you use. We're also exploring the power of fantasies, and unpacking the role of men in today’s society. What’s the right amount of masculine that commands power and respect without being hyper masculine and a turn off for many women? “Seduction is a language that does not involve words.” -Robert Greene By the end of this episode you’ll have a deeper understanding of seduction, attraction, and the authentic connection that women crave. Your journey to becoming irresistibly desirable starts here. Follow Robert Greene: Website: https://www.robertgreene.co/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-greene-0294962/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/RobertGreene  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robertgreeneofficial/  Follow Me Tom Bilyeu:  Website: https://impacttheoryuniversity.com/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/TomBilyeu  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/  SPONSORS: Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase at https://bit.ly/AG1Impact. Right now, Kajabi is offering a 30-day free trial to start your own business if you go to https://bit.ly/Kajabi-Impact. Head to www.insidetracker.com and use code “IMPACTTHEORY” to get 20% off! Learn a new language and get 55% off at https://bit.ly/BabbelImpact. Try NordVPN risk-free with a 30-day money-back guarantee by going to https://bit.ly/NordVPNImpact Give online therapy a try at https://bit.ly/BetterhelpImpact and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://bit.ly/PlungeImpact and use code IMPACT to get $150 off your incredible cold plunge tub today. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you. Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.  This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. * New episodes delivered ad-free * Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more * Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list * You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: *Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement *Money Mindset: Business & Finance *Relationship Theory: Relationships *Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health *Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

If you want to do well with women, you are going to have to understand it as an art. You don't need to be fake, but you do need to be strategic. Every move or non-move that you make makes you more or less desirable. And if you're naive to that, you're not going to get anywhere. If, on the other hand, you come to understand women generally, and how to be both artful and genuine in seduction, you've got a shot.

0:23.0

To help in this effort, I'm joined by best-selling author Robert Green.

0:28.3

What should men learn from the fact that women fantasize about vampires and billionaires?

0:35.4

Seduction involves the desire to lose control.

0:39.3

And men share this as well, which is why men are often attracted to women who are slightly dangerous,

0:44.3

women who are either a little bit crazy, or women who have this incredible sexual energy that can almost dominate a man.

0:52.3

So seduction involves crossing up closely to that border of something

0:56.6

that's dangerous, where you might be overwhelmed, particularly in the day in our world today

1:02.2

where things are getting more and more puritan and people are more constrained by political

1:06.4

correctness and all these tenets that we're supposed to adhere to, that we lead rather dull,

1:11.6

constricted lives. We're not playful enough. We don't. Things are too ordered and

1:16.6

conventional and regimented in our world. But secretly we want to get out of that.

1:21.6

Secretly we are drawn to what is dangerous, to what we can't really control. Seduction is a sense of I'm letting go a little bit.

1:30.3

I'm entering a world where the other person is leading me through an adventure,

1:35.3

and that's the excitement. That's the kind of transgressive element.

1:39.3

A dangerous person is always going to have that.

1:42.3

A vampire I can understand, billionaire is a different thing.

1:45.6

I mean, billionaire has to do with security and comfort and money and the sense of a man who's

1:51.0

made it, you know, he must have some quality that's got him into that position kind of thing.

1:57.7

The fantasy of you can have any kind of object that you desire, like in a fairy tale,

2:02.5

because this man has billions of dollars so he can afford whatever you want. I prefer when I'm

2:08.5

thinking about seduction to deal with kind of real-life situation scenarios. I understand romantic fiction.

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