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Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own rebirth many years ago

and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life lessons and revelations.

I believe in casual over clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-health doesn't have to be so complicated. Things to look for to decide whether you want to invest in someone or not. Okay, I'm also

going to go as deep as I can on each one so this isn't going to be like a list of 25.

I'm gonna pick three maybe four well maybe do one or maybe two but most likely one per episode in this series and because I want to go

deeper and I want to give you

give you examples and I also want to bring it back to you right meaning do you possess these traits

If you're looking for these things you should also possess them as well or at least I think. Okay the first

one is does the person take ownership and this this is, I mean, I can't tell you how foundational this is.

And not only from my experience from different partners but also seeing the effect on my partners when I take ownership

and when I don't, right? Because I'm not perfect and I haven't in many of my relationships. I've been very defensive and of course

client stories working with clients and this is just one of those foundational here's the thing if someone doesn't take

ownership like zero if someone is constantly defensive and I get clients and people

ask me about this all the time like I'm with this person and they

always you know flip it and blame it on me they never take ownership and to me it's

such a red flag now it's of course it's possible for the person to start taking ownership.

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