You know, there's an interesting energy that can erode connections slowly but surely.

You know, it thrives in silence, it's quiet, it observes, but it grows and it gets stronger as time goes.

Something we all want in our dynamics is reassurance, right?

Knowing we are valued, knowing we are seen and felt, when someone tells you that they love you, it's a moment, it's beautiful. But if they never say it again, it's just away, it's lost, it's completely forgotten, you could say.

This is why reassurance comes in to reaffirm, to remind that the love is still there, it's thriving, that you are appreciated, that they are appreciated.

But there's this energy again that is like a hidden storm that makes it almost impossible to reassure through. It's like a thick cloud of black smoke.

It's resentment. It bruised quietly, sometimes unnoticed, but its effects are profound.

It's an emotion that often stems from feelings of injustice, betrayal, or unmet expectations.

When we hold on to resentment, it erodes the connection,

and it's nearly impossible to give reassurance through resentment.

We may try to do it, but the words lose all meaning and essence.

Resentment, it can cloud our judgment. lose all meaning and essence.

Resentment, it can cloud our judgment,

obscure our inner wisdom,

and make it difficult to offer the reassurance

that we can

can't deeply resentment doesn't just happen with others though.

We can deeply resent ourselves after not listening to our gut

for ignoring the signs, for moving in a direction that we knew wasn't for us.

This resentment can erode the connection we have with ourselves.

We must be very careful, making it difficult to reassure ourselves of our value of our love to see ourselves in the mirror and say yes

I love you we start to see ourselves differently the resentment has blurred our view distorting reality.

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