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Hello and welcome to the J Train podcast is J Train Jared Breed coming to you live from Harlem New York City

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They're crazy today. It's wild how crazy they are. It's like I'm believe you guys well enough enough. I know you like the show. Oh come on you you you you you you me me me me we we bring that hard.

We got the boat tied up to the deck unbelievable guys you guys are listening and that's how this show goes. You listen to the show you support the sponsors you tell a friend I bring the funny I bring the

haze I bring the advice shall be brings the noise. We're all here. You that's right. You feather a nut. I feather a nut. That's review subscribe. You got a rate review subscribe. You got to do it all. We got to help each other. I'm there with you during your commute. I'm there with you during your work. I'm

there with you during your walks. Be there for me. Tell a friend. Tell a coworker a brother a sister a mama a papa and I get it's hard to tell people because they come at you people will tell you why they don't listen even if they don't even

know what the fuck you're talking about. They can't wait to just run it down. That's the thing. People want to live their lives. They want to wake up. They want to go to work. They want to go to the gym. They want to get drunk and they want to

do it the same way every day and they don't want to have to think about the other things they could be doing because then they feel like they're missing out. So here's what you do. Make it your

Instagram story. Take a screenshot that's an uninvasive way. And if someone says I'm not a podcast person just remember that's them saying I'm stupid. That's what they're saying, translate that. I'm dumb. I'm behind. Yeah, that's them. I listen to radio and I go I turn the

dial to try and find. I don't use ATMs. I like a bank teller. I like to wait in line. I don't use cars. I like my horse. Do you take check? Do you take checks? Is Pepsi? Okay? That's the same thing you're saying to me. So they'll get there. They'll be there Instagram story. Feather these nuts, baby. Make it feel good. Up and down. That's right. He's not. That's right. Yeah.

Very excited about today's guest. Great to have her back. Okay, P. So pumped so funny. All of you need to go follow Justi Dodge. Thank you for coming on. Hi. I can't with you. Why? Great. Guest alert. Great. Guest alert. Justi's back. It's been a couple of years. I know it's been too long. I'm happy to see you. I'm okay with you. You're okay. You're okay with seeing me. I'm mad that you had my ex husband on before me again.

You're a great guest alert. Shelby's ring in that bill. Shelby are bonded more than me and you. Apparently. I like Shelby better. You've been married how many times? Just once. Just once. Why did I feel like it's been like a lot of rings? You got a lot of rings. I feel like you're the type that would get like a promise ring. Yeah. And then be like we're married. That's enough. In the celestial sense. Like I just don't give a fuck. You know, I kind of used you're at my first wedding. I don't know if you're the next one. Great time. Well, trying to get that invite now. I know I gotta save some of the pictures. So it's like.

Can you do you look back? You've been married before. Do you look back at the wedding and go? I can't believe it or that's a part of my life. I am who I am because I got married. How do you feel? Because there's a lot of people that are right into this podcast. You know, they wouldn't be as strong as maybe you are. You know, you're there's a strength to that. To say I want to change my life. Something is not going on great right here. So I'm gonna do something. What? What? Yeah, that's hard to do. I mean, it's not. You can just be like, I don't want to do this. Oh, well.

It's hard. It's hard. It's the thing is like nowadays. You can just it's very well. We're two comics. What do you think we're going to split up nothing? Like it's sure. But that's so well. Even having nothing, you know, material wise. You still got an Instagram account. Yeah. Play that music. It's a. Hello. I don't know. Listen, love was love. We've loved and lost. Yeah. Good. But I'm saying for a lot of people, even a breakup is tough. Oh, dude. I'm like in the wake up of my life.

Right now. The worst breakup of your life. And I have a voice. Oh, this dude just like he was Canadian. I think that's what it is. I think he's. He's coast Canadian. Um, West Coast. Really? That's right. No, you know, it was I think because you. Okay. So I went through my divorce right before. Okay. I was with this guy named Mike Harris. This was before I got married. And then I left him for James Harris, who's my ex husband. Okay. And then I love James for a guy named James was a great guest on this podcast friend of a pop and we're happy we had him. But we still got a long.

Between you was between you. Right. Remember when to Caleb. Where I went to this guy named Ian. Okay. So I think when I when we broke up, well, one like the rug was kind of pulled up from under me. You know me. I'm not like a. I'm not a weak person when it comes to break up. So I'm usually like, oh, fuck yourself. It's cool. You're done. Yeah. This one like it was like. Yeah, I just. I got. Yeah. Like out of fuck off. No, we're like real. I've never been this shocked. Like I don't know. Yeah, it really fucked me up. So listen, I've been the one to end something. Oh, no, you have.

Yeah, the person will look at me and go, is this a is a prank? Yeah. Like they, so I understand being on the other side of that where you're like, okay, I've dealt with it in my mind. And then it sucks because the other person has to now deal with it. Like at least, you know, behind you. But he's here to say with it. Like I had just gotten back from there. Like to wrote the trip and everything. Like the last prop I was there. He was I'm in love with you introducing this. So this is long distance. Yeah, but we go back and forth every month. Okay. Again, the whole thing was like there wasn't indication that something was going to go wrong. You know, you even after it ends, you just

actually, there's like that month where you're like, I'm heartbroken. I'm hurt. I couldn't see this coming. But then you start to see the stuff because they like, you know, like, you're so blinded when you're in the middle of it. This nothing still. Well, the tough part about that. I mean, from the guy perspective on that is like, you're damned if you do, damned if you don't. Like girls are always like, because they'll be like, oh, that's why you were acting like a dickhead for three weeks. And now I know the real story. And you, you know, didn't even want to be with me. And then it's like the other side of that is like, why didn't you tell me? It's like, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I,

I think that's not even just for guys. I think that's in general, it should happen to both. Um, but like what I'm saying with this is even when I was out there, it's like introducing me to friends again. It's like, I'm so in love with you. I'm like, everything's cool. Everything is great. I'm gonna, I'm booking a trip to see you next up until the day before where he's like, I miss you so much. Yada, and then 10 hours later, I gotta call him. I don't want to do this anymore. Sure, even maybe in his head, like he had gone through it and he's trying to convince himself, but it's still like one of those things where I'm pretty intuitive. I give myself credit. Is there, is there a point that where he calls you and you're like, well, you didn't even give me a chance.

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