They Are Going To Ruin Christmas! Preparing For The Holidays With a Narcissist
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 24 December 2025
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Welcome to the MENTAL HEALNESS PODCAST! This episode explores how `narcissists` can impact your `christmas` experience. We discuss strategies for navigating the `narc season` and preventing them from `ruining holidays`. This is especially important if you are in a `toxic relationship` with one.
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| 0:00.0 | Christmas with a narcissist. |
| 0:03.0 | That's what we're talking about today. |
| 0:05.0 | Y'all preparing for Christmas, for holiday season, tis the season, to be jolly, unless you a narcissistic person, right? |
| 0:13.0 | Of course, if you're new here, I'm Lee Hammack. |
| 0:15.0 | I'm a diagnosed narcissist, and welcome to the Christmas edition of the Narcissist's Code. |
| 0:19.0 | What a Christmas. |
| 0:54.6 | Boom. Welcome back, folks. Welcome back, welcome back. Yes. Y'all Christmas time is in the air. Ooh, yeah, girl. No, seriously, man. Christmas. I know I'm joking. I'm laughing right now. But y'all know. If you've dealt with an narcissist or a toxic person, you absolutely know and you absolutely understand that Christmas is, it's going to be tough with the narcissus. |
| 0:59.6 | With most, with most narcissists, let's get this part out the way right here. Not every single |
| 1:04.0 | narcissist will ruin Christmas, right? There are some narcissists out there that absolutely, |
| 1:10.1 | positively, will have a great Christmas with |
| 1:12.2 | you and guess what this might be the only day of the year that you get a good time for them |
| 1:17.8 | you get a good holiday for them right that's the that's on the minimal side this doesn't happen |
| 1:24.1 | very often right so not every narcissist is going to ruin Christmas. Sometimes |
| 1:28.5 | this is the most wonderful time of the year for them too, right? Because not only do they get to |
| 1:36.1 | like give you gifts, they get to put on a show for everybody. If y'all have company, if you have |
| 1:39.9 | guests, if you have people coming over or whatever the case may be, that narcissistic person |
| 1:43.9 | in your life gets to put on a damn show. They absolutely do. They get to have people coming around, |
| 1:50.3 | showing like a party, showing the guests, whatever, being the happy, go lucky camper that they are. |
| 1:56.3 | And this, guess what? When they're on that best behavior, you're looking at them like this. |
| 2:00.4 | Your lip is quivering. You are angry as hell because you know that they're just putting on an act you know what they're doing this is not this is not out of the or this is not something new for you because you've been with them a while and you've seen how they just turn it turn on the jolly good the jolly good elf mood right here at this time of the year and 364 other days they are literally literally |
| 2:24.8 | literally the grinch the grinch right this is literally who they are this is literally who they become |
| 2:32.6 | they are the grinch in your life they are and because they they are. This is literally who they become. They are the grinch in your life. They are. And because they're nice one day of the year, it doesn't make up for everything they've done the rest of the year. It just does not. If they're good to you on Christmas and bad to you, the rest of the year, y'all, this is how it's going to be. Seriously, this is the crux of it all. |
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