Therapy Thursdays | Is This Love, Limerence, or Fear?
The Angry Therapist Podcast
John Kim
4.6 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 9 April 2026
⏱️ 21 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | When was the last time you stopped and listened to your body? |
| 0:03.0 | Here's a Holland and Barrett ad break to do just that. |
| 0:06.0 | Go on, tune in. |
| 0:08.0 | Think about your body when you exercise. |
| 0:11.0 | Are those knees creaking? |
| 0:13.0 | Are your muscles ever so slightly aching? |
| 0:16.0 | Or are they trying to say, |
| 0:18.0 | You've got to show me love. |
| 0:21.6 | We know what your body's asking for. |
| 0:24.6 | In store online on the app. |
| 0:26.6 | Back Your Body, Holland and Barrett. |
| 0:29.6 | Things you would never bring up in therapy |
| 0:33.6 | you could bring up here. |
| 0:53.5 | My partner feels that a 50-50 split is fair, but I earn half of his salary. I need equality. Is this fair? How much money you have, what you own, what you |
| 0:56.7 | drive, the letters after your name, none of that contributes to 50% of building a relationship. |
| 1:04.3 | All of that is a completely separate thing. It's not the base model. Those are extras and doesn't contribute to the car moving |
| 1:14.5 | forward. What does contribute, what is your 50% is actually a hundred percent effort and some may |
| 1:22.5 | argue that is 110 of building something that is greater than yourself. What is your 50% is what you bring to the |
| 1:30.5 | table in wanting to be better, looking at patterns, looking inward, growing, evolving, changing. |
| 1:42.0 | What is your contribution to the relationship dynamic? That is what people |
| 1:47.9 | are bringing to the table, not money. And anything that is leveraged besides that is unfair. |
| 1:57.2 | Actually, anything leveraged in a relationship is unfair. So you can't say because you make X amount of money or even because you're doing X amount of work, |
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