The Yeah But Mentality - Life After Abuse - Rejecting Former Friends

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.5 • 2K Ratings

🗓️ 28 August 2016

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

Ever have a friend that said "Yeah But..." to every good suggestion you made? How about when they actually ask for your advice, you give it, but they don't do it because their excuse machine activates? There are two types of people I talk about in the first segment: Yeah But people, and Okay I'll Try It people. Sure, there are millions of other types of people out there, but it's a good start. Also, I receive a letter from a woman who decided to remove toxic family members from her life and get away from abuse. She took massive first steps, but what's next? How can you recover from a life of abuse? How can you get to a place beyond where you can relax and feel good again? Finally, I read another letting about what it might take to reject people in your life. How about those sensitive people that might be hurt by rejection? Is there a way to get away from those who keep showing up when you don't want them to? Sounds like a great thing to talk about. Today's sponsor wants you to get your free will. Go to getoutofthemess.com and sign up today!

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0:00.0	Today's episode of the overwhelmed brain is being inscribed onto stone tablets to be discovered by archaeologists thousands of years from now.
0:09.0	Are you annoyed by affirmations? Are you tired of being told to... Think positively!
0:15.0	Smile to denial is what I always say. And if you're smiling, no one can see the pain within.
0:20.8	How is that unhealthy?
0:22.4	Seriously, how is it unhealthy? Seriously, how is it unhealthy?
0:24.0	Now, where do they put that Zolok?
0:26.0	If affirmations feel like lies and positive thinking feels like a dose of denial,
0:30.0	then get ready to start creating the life you want now. Hello this is Paul Kolyani host of the overwhelmed brain and your personal empowerment
0:52.1	coach this is the personal growth show for the critical and your personal empowerment coach.
0:53.0	This is the personal growth show for the critical thinker.
0:55.9	On every episode, we'll talk about practical down to earth steps
0:59.7	to help you improve your mood.
1:02.3	Not only that, it will keep you sane in this powerful
1:05.4	journey we call life. I want to help you bridge the gap between your emotions and
1:09.9	reason, causing you to discover why you do the things you do and what you can do to reach higher levels of happiness and lower levels of stress and overwhelm.
1:19.0	And if you're here to learn more common sense tips to improve your life, then you're probably brand new to
1:24.3	this show and will be very very unsatisfied because this is the direct path to
1:29.9	uncommon sense. That's right, I don't repackage information. I just share what I
1:35.4	know to work and that's why it's going to help you learn, heal, grow, and
1:40.7	evolve. All right I want to talk about two different types of people and of course there are millions of types of people but in this particular segment I'm going to talk about the yeah but people.
1:53.5	Those who say, yeah but if I do it, well then this might happen.
2:00.8	Or if I don't do it, then this might happen, or this might not happen.
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