This is a Salaback Church podcast.

We're going to do a little survey to kick it off.

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So on the spectrum of I probably ask for help more than I should, Two, I would rather die than ask for help.

I would like to know where you are.

And so if you're over here on this side,

you guys are the ones that are the delegators,

you're more collaborative.

You don't mind asking people for help.

Just get the whole gang involved.

Raise your hand if you're more on this side, okay?

Okay?

This is the side Andy is on. Andy would delegate brushing his teeth. involved, raise your hand if you're more on this side, okay? Okay?

This is the side Andy is on.

Andy would delegate brushing his teeth if he could.

He does not mind asking you for help.

Now, if you're over here on this side and you're like the self-sufficient one, you're the independent one, you ain't asking nothing nothing from nobody just raise your hand if you're

over here on this side okay okay so that's where i find myself too way above midline over there

trying to work myself backwards to the healthy middle interdependence but i kind of live with this

attitude uh it's fine i've got it i'll I'll figure it out. And to illustrate that point,

I thought I could share a little story from my life back in the fall of 2010. This is the time that

we, Andy and I, had just brought home our son, Sammy, from Ethiopia. Sammy was adopted just under the age of two years old.

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