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Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness It with Ethan Kross • 224

Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

Melissa Monte | Conscious Coach

Mental Health, Mindfulness, Consciousness, Personal Growth, Spiritual Growth, Inspirational, Awakening, Religion & Spirituality, Spirituality, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9897 Ratings

🗓️ 5 April 2022

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

We will learn: The costs of negative inner dialogue that go far beyond our ability to focus our attention. Surprising negative effects of sharing emotions. How our inner voice guides the mind and how to be more intentional about it. Did you know, we spend one-third to one-half of our waking life not living in the present? We humans have a hard time being present. We have the habit of rumination. Thinking about things that can’t be changed or that haven’t happened yet. So that’s what we’re talking about today: The Voice in Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness It. Our guest is Ethan Kross, PhD, one of the world's leading experts on controlling the conscious mind, award-winning professor at the University of Michigan and the Ross School of Business, director of the Emotion & Self Control Laboratory, and author of Chatter: The Voice In Our Head, Why It Matters, and How to Harness It. Links from the episode: Show Notes: https://mindlove.com/224 Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes from your highest self. Get Mind Love Premium for exclusive ad-free episodes and monthly meditations. Support Mind Love Sponsors See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to Mind Love, episode 224.

0:04.0

Today's episode is all about the voice in our head, why it matters, and how to harness it.

0:09.5

I think chatter is one of the big problems we face as a species and I say that because it sinks

0:16.0

us in three areas of our lives that I think most of us care a great deal about.

0:20.9

First thing is that Chatter makes it really hard for us to think and perform.

0:24.0

It can also create friction in our relationships with other people and it does this in a few different ways.

0:30.0

One of the things we know about chatter is we like to talk about it with other people.

0:34.4

And that can have the unfortunate negative consequence of pushing away people who genuinely love

0:39.4

us and care about us and want to help because there's only so much that they can listen to

0:43.8

before we start to bring them down as well. Finally we know that chatter can

0:48.0

also have negative implications for our actual physical health. Turn up your frequency with mind love.

0:57.0

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1:01.0

It's time to give your mind a little love with your host, Melissa Monte.

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