How important is it to stay attractive in your marriage to each other?

Well, this woman named Pearl Davis seems to think that it's only important for women to stay attractive in their marriage.

She was recently on a podcast that I saw on a TikTok account called Council of Trent,

where she's talking to this guy about how women have an obligation to not gain

weight and to stay beautiful throughout the course of their marriage.

If you're saying that men can't have standards in their own marriage, like this is, this is the,

well, you're saying it's irrational for a guy to demand his wife stay a certain weight.

Why?

Why is that wrong?

To stay a certain way to be during their entire weight. Why? Why is that wrong? To stay a certain

weight during their entire marriage? Why? Why? Why is that wrong? Because I've seen women do it.

Would you like me to answer the question? Go ahead. Because biologically, we, our bodies change

over time. They'll naturally gain and lose weight in different circumstances. And you're

worth as a spouse whether you

are a husband or a wife is not derived by your weight that's just a shallow thing now i think that

both husbands and wives should encourage the other should encourage it's your job to be attractive i think

husbands and wives should both maintain attractiveness why do you always like why do you always have to

bring it back because right now why do you always have to bring it back?

Because right now, why do you only focus on women? Right now, because we're asking about the deal for men.

So I'm looking at this from the man's point of view.

What does the man get out of it?

Is this a good deal?

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