The Truth Behind His Words and Actions w/ Stephan Speaks: Part 1
The R Spot with Iyanla
Shondaland Audio and iHeartPodcasts
4.9 • 908 Ratings
🗓️ 21 February 2024
⏱️ 39 minutes
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Iconic truth-teller and YouTube superstar Stephan Speaks shares the real real about how men exist in relationships. From men who never let themselves fall in love to the debate about how women don’t enjoy sex the same as men, Iyanla and Stephan dive into it all.
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| 0:00.0 | I am Yamla your host for this journey. I was a hopeless love a holic but just could not get my love to work. |
| 0:11.0 | Then after a series of heartbreaks and deep heartache, I finally got clear about |
| 0:18.0 | what love is and what it is not. I want to share some of what I've learned about lover holism. |
| 0:25.4 | Welcome to the R spot, a production of Shandaland audio in partnership with I Heart Radio. Greetings and Grand Rising to you. I am Yon the Van Zant, your guide, your support facilitator teacher for some soft place for others, |
| 0:58.0 | and this is the Our spot, the place that we come to talk about all things, relationships, all kinds of relationships, |
| 1:07.1 | because relationships are one of the most important elements of our life. Everything is a relationship, y'all, everything. How you eat, |
| 1:16.3 | your money, when you see people in the street, your body, everything is a relationship and our relationship with ourselves and our relationship with other people |
| 1:28.0 | really determine the course, the nature, the tone, the tenor of our lives. |
| 1:32.0 | So here at the R spot we want to touch that place in your |
| 1:37.4 | relationships that'll help make you better. And you know this season on the R spot I |
| 1:42.0 | promised you I'm going to do things differently because I don't want to be an old dog that don't do new tricks. |
| 1:48.0 | Actually, I don't want to be a dog at all. I just want to be old. |
| 1:53.0 | Because you don't have to age. |
| 1:56.0 | You don't have to age, but you gotta get older. |
| 1:59.0 | So that's what I'm doing. |
| 2:01.0 | And this season, I'm bringing in other people to talk to you about relationships. We've had guests and I have a |
| 2:06.4 | guest today that I'm so excited about to introduce you to in talking about relationships and the thing that I love the thing that I love about |
| 2:16.1 | this guest is that this is a man who talks to women I love that because women talking |
| 2:21.2 | to women you know we don't pay each other no mind and we get defensive and we get resistant, |
| 2:26.0 | but when you have a fine young thing talking to you, in that what Michael Jackson said, |
| 2:30.7 | pretty young thing. No, he said young. I'm saying fine. You know, when a woman |
| 2:37.3 | says fine, you talk about wine and that's not going to make you drunk today. But no I have a beautiful beautiful brother |
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