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Seeing Other People

The Truth About Healing No One Talks About

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2025

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

I’m joined by Han Huante, host of How I See It, for a vulnerable conversation about mental health, dating patterns, and the real (often messy) work of healing. We talk about how moving out of her comfort zone triggered depression and anxiety, how self-hatred shaped who she dated, and why being “real” with yourself is the first step toward real peace. Hannah opens up about choosing discomfort to find clarity, busts a few big healing myths, and shares why fear has been one of her greatest teachers.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:08.1

Hannah Wante, aka Han, welcome to seeing other people.

0:11.3

I'm so excited.

0:12.6

I feel like it's cool to be in your environment in New York, which is crazy.

0:18.2

I feel like I don't get to do in-person podcasts with people on the East Coast very often. Well, you've been crushing it this week. Oh, thanks. That is crazy. I feel like I don't get to do in person, like, podcasts with people on the East Coast very often.

0:37.5

Well, you've been crushing it this week. Oh, thanks. That's nice. You did so well on my podcast. I'm excited for yours to come out online. It was such a good conversation. And I know this one is going to be the same. It's like we both have experience, like, different but similar things. where like we understand each other.

0:37.9

Totally.

0:39.5

And what we,

0:40.0

you know,

0:37.5

like put out there in order to, have experienced like different but similar things. We like we understand each other. Totally.

0:38.0

And what we, you know, like put out there in order to grow the platforms we've built.

0:43.7

Like it's a hard thing to do.

0:45.5

But it comes from like the pain that we felt.

0:47.9

It comes from the desire to, you know, put, turn into like purpose.

0:53.2

Totally.

0:53.7

No, I always tell people because I think people are really surprised when I talk about,

0:57.6

especially like within dating that I have a hard time being like vulnerable because of how

1:01.6

vulnerable I am on my platforms and online. And I think it's just different, obviously, but I think

1:06.9

mostly because like it's in service of others. I know that's for you too like when you

1:11.4

lead with purpose and mission it's easier to do the hard things yeah what was your journey like

1:24.9

in terms of okay we're going to talk about mental health we're going to talk about dating we're going to talk about depression we're going to talk about mental health. We're going to talk about dating.

1:27.8

We're going to talk about depression.

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