"All Of Our Friends Are Progressing in Life"
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 10 June 2025
⏱️ 66 minutes
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Summary
I sit down with Danielle Dietzek and Julie Griggs, the cofounders of Fourplay Social (@fourplaysocial), for a real, unfiltered girl chat. We’re diving deep into what it feels like when your friends are hitting major life milestones like marriage, babies, and buying homes, while you're still single and wondering if you’re getting left behind. We talk about the pressure to define yourself by your relationship status, the confusing space of wanting a relationship but knowing it might not quite fit into your life right now, and the scary thought of maybe not finding a life partner at all. We also get into how to meet new single friends as an adult, and how to bring up these vulnerable conversations with the people in your life—without shame, and without feeling like you're being dramatic.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:08.0 | Julie Griggs, Danielle Dietzik. |
| 0:09.9 | Welcome back to seeing other people. |
| 0:11.5 | Thank you. |
| 0:12.1 | I love being here. |
| 0:13.2 | Thank you for having us back for like the eighth time. |
| 0:15.0 | I mean, you guys can come back. |
| 0:16.9 | Like, if you want to record again tomorrow, I'm down. |
| 0:19.8 | Will he be here? |
| 0:20.9 | Will Berkeley be here? Berkeley does live I'm down. Will he be here? Will Barkley be here? |
| 0:22.0 | Barkley does live here. |
| 0:23.4 | Amazing. We'll be here. I wonder maybe you guys should record with Barclay when you have him in a few weeks without me and he can host. Oh my God. Yeah. We can be like guests. We could do a guest episode on your podcast. Yes, without me. We're also having a foreplay date with Barclay and Bo. |
| 0:38.1 | Yes. |
| 0:38.7 | We're going to have two. |
| 0:39.7 | It's two dogs and two girls. |
| 0:41.3 | Wow. on your podcast. Yes, without me. We're also having a foreplay date with Bargley and |
| 0:37.5 | Bo. Yes. We're going to have two, it's two dogs and two girls. Wow. That's the dream. |
| 0:42.8 | Two boy dogs too. Yeah. It's the dream. Well, I am so happy to have you guys back here. |
| 0:47.1 | Thank you for being here. For those who don't know, Julie and Danielle, they are my good friends of like five years now. |
| 0:57.5 | They are the founders of Forplay Social. |
| 1:01.6 | And they are two of the genuinely like best people I know. |
| 1:06.1 | And I will always hold it against myself that you guys weren't actually at my wedding. We were actually at your wedding, okay? We had the biggest honor of all. We worked your wedding. We were managing Barclay, who was the VIP of the wedding. So we actually had the biggest honor. We like got to be at pictures. This is true. You were. Yeah. But no, I have like, I think I've definitely talked about you guys a lot, actually, when being interviewed on other people's podcasts, talking about friendship, talking about wedding planning. And, you know, I talked so much about, like, the stressors that I went through and, like, being kept up at night about the guest list. And I was like, it was, it's just been, I I mean the two of you and the way you reacted to me |
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