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Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

The Surprising Psychology of BDSM • 034

Mind Love • Modern Mindfulness to Think, Feel, and Live Well

Melissa Monte | Mindset Mentor

Mental Health, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.9897 Ratings

🗓️ 10 July 2018

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Ep. 034: Today we’re exploring a realm I have yet to hear on a mindfulness show, but I really think there are so many benefits to being opening your mind to things outside of your comfort zone and when I go over some of these stats in a minute, you’ll see why. We’re talking about BDSM with a professional dominatrix. BDSM stands for bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. Recent psychological studies have actually shown that people who partake in BDSM might actually be happier, and healthier. Today we are lifting the veil and our guest is actually a professional dominatrix named Collette Pervette. She has been practicing the art of intimacy and power exchange for the past 13 years. She holds a PhD in Human Development and Education from UC Berkeley. She thinks our fantasies and suffering and have the potential to lead us to our higher purpose. We will learn: How becoming vulnerable can deepen intimacy How to get the balls to speak your own hidden desires How to be more open and accepting toward people and situations in your life Show Notes: mindlove.com/034 Sign up for The Morning Mind Love for short daily notes from your highest self. Get Mind Love Premium for exclusive ad-free episodes and monthly meditations. Support Mind Love Sponsors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to Mind Love, episode 34.

0:03.0

Today's episode is all about the psychological benefits of a little bit of kink.

0:07.0

Side note, you might want to earmuff the kids for this one.

0:10.0

What's the depths that you are willing to experience to let go?

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And I think that's what love is to let go and give into all of the emotions that come up

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when you're surrendering to this force that's greater than you.

0:23.2

Turn up your frequency with mind love.

0:29.2

Bight-sized brain hacks for seekers, dreamers, and doers. It's time to give your mind a little love

0:35.8

with your host, Melissa Monti.

0:47.0

First off, Mind Love is now a Cast Box original. Cast Box is the fastest growing, highest rated podcast app on both iOS and Android where you can get all of your favorite

0:54.8

podcasts. It has a super clean layout and you can create playlists and download

0:59.7

episodes to play offline. It's my personal favorite and where I listen to all of my

1:04.0

podcasts. Don't worry you can still listen to Mind Love wherever you get your

1:07.6

podcast but I hope you'll give Castbox a try. Second, don't forget to

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subscribe on whatever podcast platform you're listening on, and leave a review if you can.

1:17.0

Reviews really help to entice more amazing guests,

1:21.0

plus it helps me grow the show, which ultimately helps me give more value to you guys.

1:26.0

A little disclaimer, I've been sick all week, so my voice is a little off, but I prefer to tell

1:31.7

myself I've got that Phoebebebe Faye sexy sick voice rather than

1:36.0

the snotty little boy voice going on so we'll get through this together.

1:40.9

Today we are exploring a realm I have yet to hear on a mindfulness show, but I really think that there are so many benefits to opening your mind to things outside of your comfort zone.

1:53.0

And when I go over some of these stats in a minute, you'll see why.

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