The "String of Yeses" Technique to Make Girls Fall in Love With You | How to Weaponize Cognitive Dissonance
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 27 October 2025
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals how to use the "String of Yeses" technique to trigger attraction, create compliance, and make women fall deeply invested in you.
By understanding cognitive dissonance — the psychological phenomenon that makes people justify their actions by changing their beliefs — Mark explains how to get women to chase you, value you more, and feel emotionally bonded through a simple series of micro-agreements.
Key Takeaways:
- How cognitive dissonance subconsciously changes how women feel about you.
- Why small acts of compliance make her like you more over time.
- The "String of Yeses" technique — and how to build irresistible momentum.
- How to use identity statements to influence her behavior and attraction toward you.
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview
[00:01:49] – What is cognitive dissonance and how it affects attraction
[00:02:59] – How actions shape beliefs — not the other way around
[00:04:21] – The Tinder example: effort equals emotional investment
[00:04:56] – Getting her to comply through small "yes" moments
[00:06:42] – The Cooking example: why having her cook builds attraction
[00:08:20] – The "String Of Yeses" Explained
[00:08:40] – The bar-movement strategy and building micro compliance
[00:10:46] – Using phone number exchanges and playful framing
[00:13:09] – Speaking identity into women to reinforce positive behavior
[00:18:01] – Applying the same principle to yourself with NLP
[00:18:26] – Why 95% of Mark's clients succeed with this mindset reprogramming
[00:20:14] – Wrap-up and final advice
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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | So cognitive dissonance, some of you may have heard before, is a psychological term that basically says, |
| 0:06.9 | you will change your opinion about something based on your actions around that thing. |
| 0:12.2 | If you could get a girl to comply in any way whatsoever, she will get cognitive dissonance |
| 0:18.0 | convincing herself that she likes you more than she might actually |
| 0:21.0 | like you. We want to shape behavior. We want to get her into a string of yeses. The more compliance |
| 0:28.1 | you can get, the more you can get her saying yes to anything, the more chances you have of |
| 0:33.9 | finally getting that dry as a bone, red helmeted warrior in your pants into her |
| 0:39.7 | squish mitten. |
| 0:41.3 | The Unapologetic Man Podcast. |
| 0:44.7 | What is up, gentlemen? |
| 0:45.6 | Welcome to another episode of the UMP. |
| 0:48.3 | Thank you so much for joining me today. |
| 0:50.0 | If this is your first time listening, welcome. |
| 0:52.4 | My name is Mark Singh. |
| 0:53.5 | I am an NLP dating coach. |
| 0:55.4 | NLP stands for neuro-linguistic programming. I'm the only coach that goes deep into the |
| 1:01.3 | psychology of my client's brains, removes bad belief systems, removes past traumas, |
| 1:06.8 | and most importantly, instills massive confidence. This is why we have a 95% success rate. That's 19 out of 20 dudes who come through my program, who absolutely 10x their results with women. What could happen for you if you two were to join us? We are open. You could speak to me personally about whether or not this is a good fit for you and whether or not you're a good fit for us. |
| 1:29.3 | But put in your application today because this will not be around forever and I would love to meet you. |
| 1:34.7 | Let's remap the belief systems inside your head so that you too can be an absolute girl magnet. |
| 1:40.4 | All right, gentlemen, today we are going to talk about a concept called the string of yeses |
| 1:44.4 | and how to weaponize what's called cognitive dissonance. So cognitive dissonance, some of you may have |
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