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The Stoic Advice Every Man Learns Too Late In Life | Ryan Holiday PT 2

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

News, Business, News Commentary

4.7 • 5.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 August 2023

⏱️ 90 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back for another thought-provoking conversation with Ryan Holiday, 10+ times bestselling author. We’ve had several guests debating both sides and considering, objectively, what is true and what best serves the current state of masculinity as we see it now through the lens of the red and blue pill communities. It’s been called toxic, it’s sparked fear, pride and arguments among men, women, and between the two sexes. Today, Ryan Holiday continues the incredible second part of our conversation digging into the uncomfortable yet necessary areas of what power and masculinity truly are and how social media influencers, YouTubers, and algorithms have clouded our vision of what power is, what is moral, and what should men be turning to and searching for if it’s not the Red and Blue pill communities. In the second part of this two-part episode, Ryan walks through the critical points that cannot be ignored if we are to move the narrative forward: *Gendered emotions doesn’t acknowledge men’s emotional outbursts *Stoics never cry’ and therefore neither should men is bullsh*t *What you need to know about yourself to not get red-pilled *The social media distortion that’s got you too dizzy to aim at anything If you’ve pondered “valid” points from the red or blue pill communities, how has it shaped your view of masculinity and what are you externally looking to for guidance on how to be a man that knows truth and power for himself? If you’re a woman in this space, how has this shaped the conversations with the men in your life? Follow Ryan Holiday: Website: https://ryanholiday.net/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/ryanholiday  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ryanholiday  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryanholiday/  SPONSORS: elizabeth@advertisepurple.com ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you. Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.  This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. * New episodes delivered ad-free * Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more * Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list * You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: *Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement *Money Mindset: Business & Finance *Relationship Theory: Relationships *Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health *Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome back for Part 2 with Ryan Holiday, best-selling author and modernizer of the incredibly

0:05.2

useful Stoic philosophy. My mission in life is to help people play the game of life well.

0:11.2

It really is a game that you can win, but winning isn't about money, fast cars, or accolades.

0:16.2

It is about earning your own respect and living a life of meaning.

0:20.1

To that end, there are few things

0:21.6

more powerful than the ideas that Ryan has popularized and that we discuss here in part two.

0:26.8

From integrating your emotions without becoming weak to avoiding a fragile ego and the blind

0:31.5

conformity that stop so many people from reaching their full potential and a whole bunch of

0:36.6

other things, including

0:37.8

the surprising impact of social media, trauma, and how to avoid becoming a parody of yourself.

0:44.1

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0:49.5

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0:54.7

Now, without further ado, I'm Tom Bill You, and I bring you Ryan Holiday.

0:59.4

You yourself, though, have said a lot of people are, a lot of people have kids, but not a lot of

1:05.5

people are parents.

1:06.4

Sure.

1:06.9

I'll tell you a story, a flight child story.

1:10.2

So, and this is an international flight.

1:12.6

I am on my way to England.

1:14.1

I am in coach, bro.

1:15.4

This is not current me.

1:16.7

This is past me.

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