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the link in the show notes. Welcome to Sex Chat for Christian Wives. I'm Chris Taylor of Honeycomb and

Spice. I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy. I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous. And I'm Bonnie

Burns of Strong Wives.

Come up your chair to our virtual kitchen table and let's chat.

When it comes to sexual interest, we tend to talk about which spouse has the higher or lower

drive.

Whichever you are can be helpful to understand where the opposite is coming from.

So today we're going to illuminate what desire is like for the higher drive wife and the lower drive wife, recognizing that

this can help us better understand our spouse's perspective. Okay, ladies, let's start by clarifying

our terms. When we talk about a higher or lower sex drive, what do we mean? And what other words

do we use or maybe even prefer?

I think it's important to remember that these are actually relative terms.

So if there's a woman who wants, who's interested in sex three times a week,

and her husband's interested in sex one time every day,

then they're both going to think that she's got a low sex drive. But she could also be a

woman who wants sex three times a week, who's married to a husband who's interested in sex

twice a week. And in that case, she would be the higher drive. It really, it's like there's not an

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