Coming up, I'm going to teach you the one simple trick to block out all of the

haters, the doubters, the criticizers, and then an MIT interviewer is blasting Gen Z.

I'll tell you why, and does she have a point? Helping you win in your work life so that you can win in other areas of your life.

This is the Ken Coleman Show. Let's talk about the haters.

And boy, this is a broad application. I'm not even sure I like the term but it gets you to the point doesn't it?

So let's just say that the haters include people in your family, your friend group that aren't actually hating

But they're just kind of negative

They're kind of the constant critic they don't believe and boy do they have influence on you.

So here's a question. Are you proud of who you are?

Do you think you're valuable? I asked this question because a lot of people aren't. They truly doubt. They're just completely covered in doubt. They doubt themselves. They're afraid that they're not viable. That they don't have something to offer. They don't have what it takes to actually be

valuable and since there's not a sense of pride in who they are a true valuation of

themselves they start to look outward for other people to validate their existence.

As a result, and by the way, I'm, listen, we're all victim to this.

As a result, we can be controlled by other people's

opinions and their approval their faces the sounds they make why because we all want

a belong we all want to belong. We all want to be perceived as valuable. We want to not just be perceived as valuable. We want to feel valuable, largely because of what others say of us, but then also we know when we do something that is valuable for others.

But we all have to deal with other people's opinions and they can completely

rule our lives and if we're not careful, ruin our lives. So how do we make sure? How do we guard ourselves from other people's opinions having too much sway over

our direction.

So, you may or may not know I enjoy golf. I don't enjoy it as much as pickleball now.

I need to confess that.

I've been cheating on golf.

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