Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

How to be Charming. Oh my gosh, there are so many YouTube videos about there, so many articles, so much content. It's like being charming is the goal.

Who do you think of, by the way, when you think about a charming person,

who comes to mind for you? Just thinking who comes to mind for me, maybe Jude Thor a bit back in the day,

maybe Bill Clinton back in the day. They always say Princess Diana was full of charm.

To me, it's anyone who is magnetic and warm, warm, kind, unabashedly themselves.

But I actually want to give you just a couple of charm hacks that you can apply no matter what,

no matter where you are, no matter who you're with, that help people just instantly fall in love with you. okay? And it is simple. It is simpler than

you might think. Charm isn't a personality or a particular trait. It is generosity,

specifically as it pertains to giving your attention to somebody else, especially in this day and age

where everyone's fubbing each other. Have you heard this term fub to phone snub? Everyone's on their

phone. Even if you're at an event, people are looking around seeing, you know, who's here,

who's not here. Attention is a rare and beautiful currency and it is really the best thing you can

give anybody. I mean, this is why coaching is so popular and so important. It's when someone

sits with you and gives you their undivided presence, their undivided attention. This, my friend, is love. It's not about being

impressive. The most magnetic, aka charming people, are the most present people. You're going to

remember people in your life who listen to you, who heard you, who made you feel

like you're the only person there with them. And I'm guessing it's not because they were super fancy

or wore amazing clothes or was super rich or connected or, I don't know, whatever, psychic.

They probably just asked simple questions and listened. Listen to your answers.

There's no performance here.

Presence.

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