What's up guys, Lisa here.

Just want to let you guys know that rating review in this podcast means the absolute world to me. And to encourage you, I'm reading out weekly reviews. This review comes from Coco O9. Thank you, Lisa Bilyu, for this podcast. I absolutely love it. I think you're so inspiring and I really enjoyed the episode with Brenda Gilbert that I recently listened to. You women are truly amazing. And I happen to agree Coco O9, Brenda Gilbert is awesome if you haven't checked it out guys. You got to go over and listen to it Who would have thought that when I had today's women of impact on the show over a year ago? The her episode would be the most watched women of impact episode ever with over 850,000 views today and still climbing Who would have thought that when she said on the show that she didn't think of herself as a businesswoman? She would then go on to start her own incredibly beautiful vegan fashion line with Samara. Who would have thought that when she came on that she would soon after be asked by the legendary Jada Pinkett Smith to go on her smash hit Facebook show Red Table Talk? Who would have thought? Well, every single human that ever came into contact with her would have thought it. That's who? Because her kindness, strength, humility, passion and drive gives off more radiation than the sun and has more gravitational pull than the moon. So please, how real welcome in the woman that that shines so bright? You need to get out your factor 13, put on your shades. The plant-based recipe developer and conscious cook in living, enthusiast, the one, the only my girl, Rady Devluke Shetty. Oh my gosh, okay, I always tell people you are the most epic person at introducing people. Like Jay always talks about how, how even Tom, when he does his stuff, it's like the most elaborate extravagant. It makes you feel like, I said it last time, like a superwoman. I don't even see those things. Thank you so much. Let me tell you, maybe you don't see it, but hopefully every other person that ever meets you shows and says that they do. Oh my God. Because in just seeing from when you were here last on the show, and what impact you've made in such a little timeframe over the year is incredible. And so that's where I really want to pick off from the last episode that we shot. So last episode, you were somewhat unknown. Your husband J was of course just doing incredible things, growing like weeds. And since then you've so much come into the spotlight. And the thing that I'm thinking of is, while it's beautiful, how many people are your cheerleaders for it and how many people are basically trying to pull you down there. And I have a quote from you that I thought was really powerful. It's easy to be happy for people when you're either not doing the same things as you so you don't pose a threat and when you're doing well. But how do you feel when we see someone succeed in ways we want to? It sounds like such a simple thing to be happy for people. But a lot of time talking from my own experiences, there can often be immediate negative feelings after hearing someone's success or achievements. Sometimes even for things you don't even want, because you see their happiness from that thing, it makes you a little bit, a little bitter, can you relate? So first of all, I wanna ask you how you felt in doing that and then have you felt other people be like that with you? Yeah, I mean, I definitely used to feel like that.

And I couldn't understand why it wasn't

that I didn't love that person or like that person, but it was, well, at first I always used to think, maybe it is, maybe I just don't like them. And my mind would tell me, maybe I just don't like them. When you weren't happy for them. Yeah, when I went happy for them. And when I actually started unwinding, like my thoughts and how I was feeling about it,

I actually realized it was because I wasn't happy in what I was doing.

That it's not even that I wanted to... And I went happy for them. And when I actually started unwinding my thoughts and how I was feeling about it, I actually

realised it was because I wasn't happy in what I was doing. It's not even that I wanted to do. I love artists. I think they're incredible, incredible in what they do. But I don't want to be an artist. But when I would see people succeeding in the type of being happy and achieving what they want to in whatever field it was in my mind it made me think oh maybe that's what I want to do

but it was only because I saw their it made me think, oh, maybe that's what I want to do.

But it was only because I saw their happiness linked to that. And so when I then started unwinding that and seeing that actually, it's not about them in any way. It's me trying to find that thing that I feel like that about. And so once I found that for me and once I really started to see that quality in me, I was like, I don't want to do that.

And so as soon as I started understanding that,

it made me so much less, like it's jealousy. really started to see that quality in me. I was like, I don't wanna do that. And so as soon as I started understanding that,

it made me so much less, like it's jealousy. And jealousy only stems when you don't have that, like sparking you that makes you full content about your own life. So how did you switch it around? So let's say, I get the whole like, you wanted someone to be happy, or you wanted to be happy, you saw other people's happiness but it wasn't in a, let's say, category that you dealt

with.

So take now, use the other vegan chefs, let's say.

Yeah. to be happy or you wanted to be happy, you saw other people's happiness, but it wasn't in a, let's say, category that you dealt with.

Yeah.

So take now, use the other vegan chefs, let's say. Yeah. Have you felt that, like, twins of jealousy or have you in the past in that specific category? And then if so, how do you actually work on it? What does that look like? Yeah. I am. I think before I started becoming serious about what I wanted to do, I definitely felt

like that about every time I would see something to a veganism or this person doing all these cooking videos and I was like, gosh, that's so amazing. Why am I not doing it? Why can't I do that? And then I just realized I was so damn lazy and if I had put in the work to do that, then I could do it. It's literally not got anything to do with them. It's due with the fact that I actually am not putting in the work. I see the people

putting in the work in different areas and in my own area and they are making it happen. And I was a type of person who would sit and I would make like charts about all the things I want to do and there would be pages and pages and pages and by the time I get to the end I would have thought about it so much it's become this huge thing like a

monster in front of me and I'm like let's shut this book and let's not do this

and it was really taking a step back and looking at myself the time I get to the end, I would have thought about it so much. It's become this huge thing, like a monster in front of me. I'm like, let's shut this book and let's not do this.

And it was really taking a step back and looking at myself and being like, you were just not doing the work. Like full stop, you are not doing the work, you're not paying in the effort, so you're not getting the result. And I think when I saw that about myself, I was like, I can't be upset or angry or jealous of these other people that are putting in the world because

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