The Secret to Playing the Long Game With Women — While Still Keeping the Upper Hand
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 20 October 2025
⏱️ 24 minutes
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Summary
In this revealing episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives deep into the secret art of "the campaign" — how to play the long game with women while keeping the upper hand and bypassing the dreaded friend zone with a super effective trick.
Mark explains why slow-building attraction leads to stronger, longer-lasting connections, and how to use time, confidence, and humor to make a woman truly invested in you. He shares real-life examples from his days as a bouncer, the psychology behind "multiple touches," and the four pillars of attraction that make this approach completely foolproof.
Key Takeaways:
- How waiting to get her number builds intrigue and desire.
- Using humor, frame control, and value to stay high-status.
- How to friend-zone her first and skyrocket her interest in you.
- Why slow-burn attraction often outperforms instant chemistry.
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview
[00:02:26] – What is the long game?
[00:03:07] – Why rushing kills attraction
[00:05:05] – The "campaign" explained
[00:09:20] – Building intrigue: controlling the frame and value
[00:11:54] – Real-world example of how effective this strategy is
[00:14:10] – Important signs of attraction
[00:15:33] – Friend-zoning her first
[00:19:18] – Recognizing her window of availability
[00:22:24] – Wrap-up and final advice
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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Today, boys, we are going to talk about the long game, which means an extended period of time |
| 0:06.7 | where you get to build rapport with her, get to know each other and get her attracted to you. |
| 0:11.7 | The most powerful relationships are those that mature with time. |
| 0:16.7 | She can get used to you. |
| 0:18.2 | She can learn about you. |
| 0:19.7 | You can learn about her. |
| 0:21.1 | You guys can get attracted to each other. |
| 0:23.0 | And then boom, it sticks. |
| 0:24.8 | We're going to discuss how to do it, the techniques that you have to use, how to prevent |
| 0:29.6 | yourself from being in the friend zone, and how to eventually lock down that girl. |
| 0:34.2 | Take your time. |
| 0:35.9 | Nurture the attraction. |
| 0:41.9 | The Unapologetic Man Podcast. What is up, gentlemen? |
| 0:47.1 | Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the uniform. Mike Papa. I super appreciate you joining me. |
| 0:57.5 | And today, boys, we are going to talk about the long game. Why you should, when possible, always take your time with seducing a woman, |
| 1:03.5 | getting a girl attracted to you. This is by far the most preferred way to do it, as opposed to the meet the girl at a nightclub, party, bar, wherever you happen to be, get her phone number, |
| 1:09.6 | text her, and then take her on a date. |
| 1:11.2 | That's good, too, including day game, meeting a girl on the day, getting her phone number |
| 1:16.2 | taking her on a date. |
| 1:17.7 | But the way to really make it stick, the most powerful relationships are those that mature |
| 1:23.2 | with time. |
| 1:24.5 | She can get used to you. |
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