3 Ways to Get a Girl's Phone Number; A Step-by-Step Guide
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 16 October 2025
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
In this practical and entertaining episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down the exact step-by-step system to get a girl's phone number — and actually get her to go on a date with you. Forget about "numbers that go nowhere." This episode reveals the secrets behind phone numbers that stick and lead to real dates and real connections.
Mark explains why attraction is built on a spectrum and how to hit the right amount of attraction before asking for her number. He introduces his powerful "3 in 5 Rule"— and walks you through the psychology, body language, and verbal cues that show she's into you.
Key Takeaways:
- Why the first conversation is critical for getting a text back and a date.
- How to use the "3 in 5" technique: three signs of attraction and five minutes of conversation.
- How having her qualify herself increases her investment and attraction.
- Three step-by-step ways to ask for her number that have the highest success rates.
- How playful humor, phone exchanges, and follow-ups boost your chances of a date.
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview
[00:01:15] – Why just getting the phone number isn't enough
[00:01:54] – The first conversation
[00:02:43] – Attraction is a spectrum
[00:04:14] – The "3 in 5" technique
[00:06:42] – Signs of attraction
[00:07:52] – Make her qualify for you
[00:10:15] – Three proven ways to ask for her number
[00:14:10] – Playful banter examples
[00:14:57] – If you don't know, you should still go!
[00:16:36] – Episode wrap-up and next episode preview
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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Today we are going to talk about phone numbers that actually stick. It's not that difficult to get a phone number. You guys have all seen it. The real question is, is she going to text you back? Because asking a girl to go on a date is a big thing. She has to get her makeup on, she has to get ready, which is why, even if you get a text back from a girl, she won't always go on the date with you. |
| 0:21.4 | So to make this real easy for you guys, I have a concept called three in five. |
| 0:27.2 | Because if you don't kill it in that first conversation, |
| 0:29.9 | the chances of you actually getting to hook up with this girl are basically zero. |
| 0:34.1 | The point of this episode is to get a phone number that actually sticks |
| 0:37.3 | where not only |
| 0:38.2 | will she text you back, but you'll actually go on a date with you. Welcome to the unapologetic |
| 0:43.5 | man podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man |
| 0:50.5 | without making any apologies for it. |
| 1:00.5 | What is up, gentlemen? |
| 1:02.9 | Welcome to another episode of the UMP. |
| 1:04.9 | I really appreciate you stopping by. |
| 1:09.7 | And today, boys, we are going to talk about three different ways to get a girl's phone number. |
| 1:11.1 | Getting the phone number is one of the biggest questions I get asked from clients and listeners to the podcast. It's not that |
| 1:16.5 | difficult to get a phone number. You guys have all seen it. You can roll up on a girl and within |
| 1:20.8 | seconds yank her phone number. The real question is, is she going to text you back? Today, we are |
| 1:26.6 | going to talk about phone numbers that |
| 1:28.1 | actually stick. I want you to get phone numbers where not only does she text you back, |
| 1:33.0 | but she actually goes on the date with you. Because asking a girl to go on a date is a big thing. |
| 1:38.4 | She has to get her makeup on. She has to get ready. There's always the danger element. It's not |
| 1:43.3 | easy for girls to go on dates with dudes, |
| 1:45.7 | which is why, even if you get a text back from a girl whose phone number you got, she won't always |
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