The Secret to Meeting People IRL (Without It Being Awkward)
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 25 February 2025
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
Tired of dating apps? Elle Wilson, founder of Met Through Friends shares how bringing a friend to a singles event can change your dating luck. We dive into why speed dating actually works, the biggest mistakes people make at in-person events, and how Elle met her fiancé just before lockdown. We also chat about the mindset shift that makes dating easier, why meeting through friends feels more natural, and how to put yourself in the right places to find a great match. Come to Met Through Friends x Seeing Other People speed dating in NYC on March 20th—bring a friend and meet great people!
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing their stories. |
| 0:16.1 | Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even cry along with us as we navigate the |
| 0:22.1 | dating scene together. El Wilson, welcome to seeing other people. Hello, thank you so much |
| 0:26.3 | for having me. Thank you for being here. I am so excited because not only have you built such an |
| 0:32.0 | amazing thing for singles everywhere and for everybody listening, I cannot wait for them to hear, |
| 0:37.8 | but you also have your own love story |
| 0:39.6 | and you also have a thriving dating coaching business. |
| 0:43.8 | And so you are so impressive. |
| 0:45.5 | I love hearing how people got into the dating space |
| 0:49.5 | and the helping people find love space, |
| 0:51.3 | which you do with met through friends. |
| 0:53.1 | And there's so much I want to talk to you about. So let's get into it. I'm so excited. Before we like dive headfirst in, can you give us a little elevator pitch of what Met Through Friends is? Yeah. So I say Met Through Friends, they're dating events where everyone has to bring a friend is sort of the gist of it. So many people were telling me, I just want to meet someone through friends. |
| 1:12.7 | I want to get off the opposite. |
| 1:13.3 | I just want to meet people through friends. But I noticed it wasn't happening as much as before. So I kind of took the thing that everyone said they wanted to do and turn that into a business. So the rule is you can bring someone of the orientation you want to date. If you're a woman who wants to date men, you have to bring a man who wants to date women, vice versa. |
| 1:26.6 | We do queer events as well. |
| 1:27.8 | But really, you have to bring someone that you |
| 1:29.1 | can vouch for, even if you don't want to date them yourself. Which is amazing because it's its own |
| 1:33.9 | vetting process. Yeah, because it used to, it used to be like when I still ran out of my apartment, |
| 1:39.9 | my own friends, just people I would invite them. Like, I know you, you are great. I need you to bring someone great. But it was a really interesting test to go, huh, kind of all the people I know have now met each other. And they either hit it off or they didn't. But like, now what? And it was sort of this question of going, huh, what happens if I just open this up to everyone else where I say, you can come, but you just can't come alone. And it was a really interesting vetting mechanism. |
| 2:03.5 | Like I don't care about like, where did you go to school? |
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