The Secret to Magnetic Chemistry in Long-Term Relationships

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 30 June 2026

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Are you and your partner really collaborating in bed, or just going through the motions? In this episode, I'm diving deep into the third pillar of Sexual Intelligence: Collaboration. I break down why two people can be having sex without truly connecting, how sexual polarity creates that magnetic charge we all crave, and why desire mismatches don't have to drive a wedge between you and your partner. I also walk you through one of my favorite practices — the Sexual State of the Union — and share simple, actionable tools like the Yes!No!Maybe? list and 60-second eye contact to help you and your partner start co-creating the sex life you actually want. Whether you're partnered or flying solo, this episode will change the way you think about intimacy. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. CONNECT WITH EMILY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to Sex With Emily 4:00 Breathwork to Build Presence 5:29 Why Sex Doesn't Always Mean Collaboration 08:09 Energetic Collaboration 10:36 Sexual Clarity 14:08 Examples of Collaboration 21:47 Emily AI 23:17 Why Talking About Sex Changes Everything 25:24 The Sexual State of the Union 29:55 Somatic Healing & Next Week's Workshop Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	I am so excited to finally share this with you.
0:02.6	I am going on tour.
0:04.4	It is the best sex ever tour.
0:07.3	And I hope you'll join me.
0:09.0	And the show is all about you, the audience.
0:11.5	Every night, I'm going to be answering your questions, win prizes, and leave with secrets
0:17.3	to have the best sex ever.
0:19.7	Every night is different because the show is all about you.
0:23.5	So here's the dates, July 7th in Rosemont, Illinois at Zanies, then heading to Philadelphia on
0:29.0	August 5th, Nashville on September 29th, and Austin on October 7th. More cities to come.
0:36.2	Come with your partner, your friends fly solo. You'll leave with
0:39.4	practical tools. Plenty of laughs. Maybe some surprises. We'll definitely some surprises. Visit
0:45.4	sex with Emily.com slash events for tickets and tour information. I will see you there. Can't
0:51.3	wait to meet you. Two people are having sex together doesn't necessarily mean they are collaborating.
0:57.0	One person leads, the other person follows.
1:00.0	One person's giving, the other person's receiving.
1:02.0	One commands, the other surrenders.
1:04.0	The real chemistry is from connection, and connection comes from collaboration.
1:08.0	Mismatched desire, desire discrepancies, high libido, low libido, one person that's higher
1:13.6	desire than the other one is going to happen in every relationship.
1:16.6	Communication is a lubrication.
1:17.6	This really is also the communication pillar.
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