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The One You Feed

The Secret to Learning & Problem-Solving in Life with Ben Orlin

The One You Feed

iHeartPodcasts

Education, Self-improvement, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Buddhism, Mental Health

4.62.5K Ratings

🗓️ 25 February 2025

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, math teacher and author Ben Orlin explores the secret to learning and problem-solving in life. He explains why struggling through challenges (in math and life) can actually be a good thing. Ben also discusses the unexpected power of humor and how we can rethink our approach to learning and change.

Key Takeaways:

  • 05:16 – Struggle is a Sign of Learning, Not Failure
  • 13:27 – Why We Fear Math (And How to Overcome It)
  • 25:06 – The Role of Humor and Play in Learning
  • 27:36 – The Paradox of Change and the Infinite Steps of Progress
  • 22:03 – Why We Need to Step Away to Solve Problems
  • 50:27 – The Link Between Happiness and Expectations

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Improvising in Life with Stephen Nachmanovitch

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Transcript

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0:00.0

There's this infinite series of actions you have to complete just to high-five somebody.

0:03.8

And this is sort of true of all motion, it feels like, all change, anything that you want to happen,

0:07.5

you can decompose it into an infinite series of steps, which certainly from a perspective of making change in your life is a very daunting thought,

0:14.4

that somehow any change is infinite in scope. Welcome to the one you feed. Throughout time, great thinkers have recognized the

0:29.6

importance of the thoughts we have, quotes like garbage in, garbage out, or you are what

0:35.2

you think, ring true. And yet, for many of us, our thoughts don't

0:39.5

strengthen or empower us. We tend toward negativity, self-pity, jealousy, or fear. We see what we don't

0:47.2

have instead of what we do. We think things that hold us back and dampen our spirit. But it's not

0:53.1

just about thinking. Our actions matter.

0:56.1

It takes conscious, consistent, and creative effort to make a life worth living. This podcast is

1:01.8

about how other people keep themselves moving in the right direction, how they feed their good

1:06.7

wolf. Math has always been a challenge for me, so naturally I figured, why not have a math

1:14.9

expert on the podcast? Really is a way to explore how we handle challenges in general. Today I'm

1:21.2

talking with Ben Orlin, who's a math teacher and author who makes problem solving feel surprisingly

1:26.2

human. We'll explore why struggling is actually a good sign, how humor helps us push through

1:32.5

tough moments, and even what a dog retrieving a ball can teach us about calculus.

1:38.3

I've spent most of my life intimidated by complex math.

1:42.3

But as I talked with Ben, I realized that how we approach math

1:45.8

mirrors how we approach any challenge, whether it's breaking a habit, learning something new,

1:51.1

or facing uncertainty. By the end of this episode, you might not just rethink math. You might

1:57.0

rethink how you take on hard things. I'm Eric Zimmer, and this is the one you feed.

2:02.6

I'm Kristen Davis, host of the podcast, Are You a Charlotte?

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