The science of healthy relationships with John and Julie Gottman

ReThinking

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4.7 • 626 Ratings

🗓️ 13 December 2022

⏱️ 51 minutes

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For decades, renowned psychologists John and Julie Gottman have studied–and guided–healthy relationships. They share insights from their research–and their marriage–on how to avoid a relationship apocalypse, handle conflict, and make love last. Their latest book, “The Love Prescription” is out now, and Adam has a field day getting them to demonstrate the differences between good and bad fights.
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0:00.0	Sean has had some good ideas over the years.
0:05.0	But using Canva was a really good one.
0:08.0	Sean designed some social posts to promote his friend's car boot sale.
0:13.0	They looked good.
0:15.0	Really, really good.
0:17.0	Next thing he knows, someone came and bought the lot, including the car.
0:24.6	Now Sean doesn't know how he's going to get home.
0:28.1	Thanks, Canva.
0:30.3	Hello, it's Ed Gamble here from the off-menu podcast.
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1:52.7	Hey everyone, it's Adam Grant.
1:54.8	Welcome back to Rethinking, my podcast on the Science of What Makes Us Tick.
1:58.8	I'm an organizational psychologist and I'm taking you inside the minds of fascinating people
2:03.2	to explore new thoughts and new ways of thinking.
2:09.9	My guests today have changed how I think about relationships.
2:14.0	Actually, they've probably done more good for everyone's relationships
2:17.1	than anybody else on Earth.
2:19.3	As pioneering psychologists, for the past four decades,
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