So it seems like some of you have noticed that there's this trend in rising, terrible internet male gurus, these guys that are like very combative.

They seem to be angry all the damn time. Like it doesn't seem to

be any other emotion other than anger. And they seem to be telling young men like, I'll teach you

how to be rich and I'll teach you how to get more puss and I'll teach you how to be a Sigma or an

alpha male or you two can drive a Bugatti and cruise around in your Audi just like me,

if only you follow my framework.

This internet male guru for me is the quintessential rise that happens amongst young men

when there are no elders present.

When a type of mature masculinity has vacated the cultural conversation to such a detrimental

degree that what rises to the top as a male role model to teach men is this kind of

youthful, adolescent, angry, hostile version of what it

means to be a man, lacking mostly in grounding, limitations, endings, boundaries,

respect for others, most specifically women. And yet, these guys seem to be getting

a ton of attention. I can't tell you how many times I go through my comments on YouTube and see

comments from you guys that are like, I can't believe your channel isn't bigger. And I hope that,

you know, a million soon and stuff like that. And while I appreciate

the love and respect and we just hit 80,000, which is incredible, what I've come to realize is that

there, there's a real big gap in the market for very grounded conversations around what it

means to be a man. And there's a gap because of a few things. Number one, it's not sexy and exciting.

It's not inflammatory. It doesn't trigger you internally. It doesn't cause you to have some,

like, yeah, I got to go to fight. I got to go to battle. This is the definition of adolescent

masculinity. Adolescent masculinity is trying to sort itself out through

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