Hello everyone and welcome to another episode of Date Yourself Instead.

So today is going to be an episode that I think we all need.

We all need this reminder because I feel like we make things so

complicated and I was talking to someone about this concept of how men's brains

work and I feel like it's just this concept of how men's brains work.

And I feel like it's just pretty straightforward

and simple and black and white,

and we tend to overcomplicate shit.

We tend to overanalyze their behaviors or what they're thinking about or how they perceive us and the truth is it's pretty simple

If someone likes you you'll know if someone wants to be with you, you'll know, you'll be sure of it, and on today's

episode I'm going to be talking about this concept of, if this person is your person, they will want to date you, they will want to be with you.

It's very straightforward black and white.

And I feel like we tend to go in this rabbit hole of like why things are the way they are, why isn't this person messaging me,

why isn't this person making an effort, why isn't this person wanting to show up for me in the way that I need and it's

probably because they're just not the right person. Now I'm pretty set on this idea of if they wanted to they would now because I've been

directly experiencing a situation where I feel like the person that I'm with is really straightforward and super honest and just

really to the point with me where he's like I like you and I want to date you or like I am pursuing you and it's very clear and obvious.

I'm not in a relationship by any means but I feel like I'm in a situation right now where it feels so aligned and so healthy for the first time in my life where we're both exactly on the same page.

And I think that's what everyone deserves.

And that's what really inspired this episode because

oftentimes we tend to get ourselves in situations where we end up being

confused, frustrated, we end up anxious, we end up sad, we lose ourselves

...