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The Bunker – News without the nonsense

The relationship recession – Why are so many people going it alone?

The Bunker – News without the nonsense

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4.61K Ratings

🗓️ 9 December 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

Far fewer people are getting into relationships than they were in the past, with a major rise in the amount of single people across the world. Why are we seeing this so-called “relationship recession”? And how can it impact us all? Jonathan Rosenthal, international editor at The Economist, wrote about this for a magazine cover story recently and joins Zoë Grünewald to discuss. • Head to ⁠https://www.nakedwines.co.uk/thebunker⁠ to get a £30 voucher and 6 top-rated wines from our sponsor Naked Wines for £39.99, delivery included.  www.patreon.com/bunkercast    Written and presented by Zoë Grünewald.  Audio production: Tom Taylor. Producer: Liam Tait. Managing Editor: Jacob Jarvis. Group Editor: Andrew Harrison. Music by Kenny Dickinson. THE BUNKER is a Podmasters Production.     Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to The Bunker News Without the Nonsense. I'm Zoe Grunewald. So it turns out the biggest

0:14.1

force reshaping our love lives isn't romance or dating apps. It's the economy. Across the

0:19.4

rich world, the cost of housing, childcare and

0:22.0

commuting, and even the price of going on a date, is pushing more people into living alone for longer.

0:27.7

Coupledom, once the default setting, is starting to look like a luxury good. Lovely, if you can

0:33.3

afford it, deeply complicated if you can't. As more of us choose or drift into singlehood,

0:39.3

the knock on effects are rippling through everything from fertility rates to friendship groups

0:43.2

to the design of our cities. And what looks like freedom can feel very different in real life.

0:48.6

So is this a quiet revolution in how we build our happiness, or a sign that intimacy is

0:53.5

becoming something else we can

0:54.7

avoid by swiping no to. And what does a world built for couples do when the couples stop

0:59.6

showing up? Today, I'm joined by Jonathan Rosenthal, international editor for the economist,

1:04.9

to unpack the economic and social fallout of a world where fewer people are pairing off.

1:09.4

Jonathan, thanks for joining me today in the bunker.

1:11.7

It's great to be here. Thank you. Let's start with the big picture. So throughout the rich world,

1:16.8

singlehood is on the rise. Among Americans, age 25 to 34, the proportion living without a spouse

1:23.2

or partner has doubled in five decades to 50% for men and 41% for women. And since 2010, the share of

1:30.2

people living alone has risen in 26 out of 30 rich countries. You've described this as a relationship

1:36.6

procession. Just how big is this and why is it happening? Oh gosh, it is huge. And as to the why it's happening, I wish there were just

1:45.9

sort of one simple answer. There are a lot of factors. You put your finger on some of them,

1:50.6

the kind of economics, but there are all kinds of other sort of demographic shifts.

1:56.0

We can go into some of those, if you like. Demographic shifts, kind of behavioral shifts.

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