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Rough Translation

The Refugee's Dating Coach

Rough Translation

NPR

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4.87.6K Ratings

🗓️ 25 September 2017

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

A Syrian refugee in Berlin hopes to find love but is stumped by German dating codes and is terrified of crossing the line between flirting and harassing. A professional 'flirt coach' steps in to be his guide. (For photos of Sophia and Aktham: bit.ly/Roughly7)

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0:00.0

So, talk to me about dating.

0:05.4

Have you tried to date in Germany?

0:10.8

Have I tried to date in Germany?

0:14.0

This is Okpham Abelhausen.

0:15.3

He's a Syrian refugee living in Berlin.

0:19.2

It had been once last year.

0:21.9

I met an ice girl and our story begins with this one chance encounter.

0:29.2

This was a year ago.

0:30.2

He was chasing down a room for rent.

0:32.2

It's always difficult to find a room here in Berlin.

0:35.7

This one was in a flat, four German guys.

0:38.2

They have some sort of team.

0:41.5

Their common hobby is sword fighting.

0:47.0

Well, the rent was cheap.

0:49.8

Yeah.

0:50.8

Anyway, while he was there, staring at the swords made of foam, mind you, he'd only recently

0:55.2

arrived from the Syrian war.

0:57.3

He started chatting with a woman, who was there with a friend, who was also looking

1:00.6

at the place.

1:01.6

She was in med school.

1:02.6

Her name was Steena.

1:03.8

They liked the same football club.

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