The Real Reasons You’re Not Satisfied in Bed

Sex With Emily

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.3 • 6.8K Ratings

🗓️ 1 May 2026

⏱️ 50 minutes

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In this live episode of Sex With Emily, I answer your real questions about sex, desire, and relationships while breaking down some of the biggest myths we’ve been taught, from porn shaping unrealistic expectations to the truth about size, pleasure, and communication. I also dive into why so many people feel blocked or “not normal” in their sex lives, how fantasies actually form, what really leads to better sex (hint: it’s not performance), and how to talk to your partner about what you want without shame or shutdowns. My goal is to help you understand your body and your desires more clearly, release the judgment around them, and ultimately create more pleasure, confidence, and connection in your sex life. #SexWithEmily #EmilyMorse #LiveStream Don't miss a video! Subscribe NOW: https://www.youtube.com/@SexWithEmilyOfficial?sub_confirmation=1 ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex. CONNECT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/ X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/ Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! Chapters: 0:00 Introduction & Safe Space Guidelines 2:14 Understanding Sexual Desires & Fantasies 4:08 Cuckolding/Hot Wifing Explained 7:35 Anal Sex Discussion 8:54 Prostate Pleasure for Men 15:15 Sex Toys & Products Overview 18:10 Pain During Sex 24:00 Female Orgasm Challenges 25:20 The Importance of Foreplay 31:54 Penis Size Truth 35:34 Pubic Hair Preferences 37:26 Knowing Your Turn-Ons 42:05 Communication Tips 44:04 Orgasm Difficulties Q&A 48:04 Closing & Resources Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:27.5	Learning to have sex by watching porn is like learning to drive by watching fast and the
0:33.9	furious. Nothing that you desire sexually automatically means there's something
0:40.4	wrong with you. You know, a lot of us are cock blocking ourselves. Let me remind you this.
0:45.0	You're not going to get your partner into anything. A lot of times when we just make these
0:49.3	direct requests to our partners, they're going to shut down. They're going to wonder why you're
0:53.9	asking. They're going to wonder why you're asking.
0:54.4	They're going to think that they're bad lovers because they don't have enough information.
0:59.4	Why do so many men like taking it up the back door? Because men have something called a prostate.
1:04.6	The idea that everybody is huge is a complete fallacy. It is a myth that is fueled by fairy tale romances.
1:11.6	Your penis size has zero to do with you being a good lover,
1:16.6	of you finding a partner.
1:18.6	Hi, all.
1:21.6	Remember, sex with Emily and all platforms, social media.
1:24.6	I hope you're all doing well.
1:26.6	This is a judgment-free space,
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