The Real Reason Why I'm Anxious In Dating

Women's Dating And Confidence Podcast

Amber Grubenmann

Boyfriend, Relationship, Hookup, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness, Confidence, Women, Sex, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Marriage, Date, Men, Dating, Education, Conversation, Love

4.8 • 525 Ratings

🗓️ 5 November 2019

⏱️ 14 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I share my talk on dating anxiety from Dr. Aziz Gazipura's live event: Unlimited Dating And Relationship Confidence. In my talk, I bust the myth that being anxious means you're an insecure mess. I give you a new identity to try on instead as well as a few tips to stop freaking out! The Solution To Dating Anxiety: https://www.ambergrubenmann.com/pages/coaching Get the free guide Copy And Paste Texts For When He Is Pulling Away Or Acting Flaky: https://www.ambergrubenmann.c...

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0:00.0	Hi everybody. Welcome to the women's dating and confidence podcast. My name is Amber, and today I want to
0:15.8	share with you a talk that I gave at the unlimited dating and relationship confidence event in Portland,
0:24.3	Oregon this last October. That's an event that Dr. Aziz puts on once annually, and we have three
0:31.4	other events that happen at different times in the year. But of course, for the dating one,
0:36.4	I wanted to talk about dating anxiety. That's one of my
0:39.9	favorite things to talk about. And I thought about just recording an episode where I basically
0:48.1	share the same information, but I did have access to the audio and I just thought that was more
0:53.2	authentic or it's just
0:56.3	different versus like what I usually do, which is just speak into the microphone.
1:01.2	So I wanted to share the actual recording with you and the audio quality is not as good
1:06.8	as what you're hearing right now, but I try to fix it as much as possible, and I think it's still
1:14.9	pretty good, so I really wanted to share that version with you. So if you're struggling with dating
1:21.9	anxiety to the point where it's affecting every area of your life, and it's preventing you from creating the connections that you want in dating
1:31.0	because you're so obsessed and scared and anxious all the time
1:36.0	and making decisions from that place.
1:39.0	I recommend that you check out my coaching program called The Solution to Dating Anxiety, and there's going to be
1:45.5	more information about that in the show notes. All right, I hope you enjoy the talk, and let me know
1:52.6	if you have any questions on Instagram, and my handle will also be in the show notes. I know that's not a threatening situation.
2:06.6	Like, I know I'm technically safe, but internally it felt like there was a lion right there.
2:13.6	Like, the reaction in my body is like, I'm going to poop my pants. And I was really curious about that.
2:21.3	I was like, how is it that this person I just met, we went on one day, he doesn't text it back for two hours,
2:27.3	how is it that they have so much control over my physical body and the reaction that happens within me.
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