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The Mental Healness Podcast

The Real Mindset of an Abuser When They Start to Miss You

The Mental Healness Podcast

Lee Hammock

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2026

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

When a toxic, abusive, or controlling ex tells you that they "miss" you, it can completely destabilize your healing process. Your brain wants to believe that they have finally realized your worth, but the behavioral reality is much darker.In this video, I break down the exact psychology of what happens when an abuser starts to miss you. We discuss the concept of a validation deficit, why they selectively romanticize the past, and how their sudden urge to reconnect is driven by a desire to regain control rather than genuine love. Stop breaking your own peace for a temporary ego play.NYC EVENT - www.mentalhealness.net/events All my links - https://link.me/mentalhealness

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0:00.0

When was the last time you stopped and listened to your body?

0:03.0

Here's a Holland and Barrett ad break to do just that.

0:06.0

Go on, tune in.

0:08.0

Think about your body when you exercise.

0:11.0

Are those knees creaking?

0:13.0

Are your muscles ever so slightly aching?

0:16.0

Or are they trying to say,

0:18.0

You've got to show me love.

0:24.1

We know what your body's asking for.

0:26.7

In store online on the app.

0:29.2

Back Your Body, Holland and Barrett.

0:33.5

Attention all passengers.

0:37.3

The Uber ride for Mark and Jamal's romantic weekend will depart in four minutes from Platform 6.

0:40.6

Your ride comes with a rolling countryside sunset view and a table seat ideal for playing footsie beneath.

0:47.9

Thank you for booking your tickets on Uber.

0:51.8

Trains on Uber.

1:01.7

What goes on in the mindset of an abusive manipulative narcissistic person when they start to miss you when you cross their mind do i ever cross your mind anytime what goes on in their mind what Do I ever cross your mind anytime? What goes on in their mind? What are they

1:14.7

thinking? That's what we're talking about today, y'all, the mindset of an abusive person

1:19.9

when and if they start to think about you. They start to miss you. If you're new here,

1:25.2

my name is Lee Hammack. I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist,

1:28.0

and welcome to another episode of the Narcissus. Let's get it. Well, so what goes on in that mind, in that dome piece when they are missing you?

1:57.3

I know a lot of people ask that question lately.

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